Duration: 12/2/07 - ?
In short (English): I won the battle but I lost the war
In short (Cartonese): Operation is sucessful, but the patient is dead
My mood: Perfectly fine

ok I know you guys are going to bug me for it but I won't have time during work tomorrow so I am gonna post this...

01/24/07
Pick up the flower from my friend's house... the flower is huge... went to her apartment... gave her the flower... she looks very happy... she is wearing the scraf I bought her... went to Gyu-Kaku. We sat opposite of each other... and then I asked her if I can sit next to her... so we can look at the menu together since none of us have been there before. We ordered a lot of stuff. I did most of the ordering. The beef tongue is good by the way... so we talk, and I did most of the cooking. After dinner I asked her if she wants to go somewhere she goes ok if you want to. I go... do you want to play WII at your apartment (I took my brother's WII and put it in my car). Went to her apartment (she lives with a roomate... her roomate was at her room and we have the living room by ourself), and we started playing WII... tennis, bowling, everything. Her hand a bit sore so I massaged her hands. I saw some flower in the living room in a vase... I asked her if someone got it for her or if she got it from a flower shop (her mom works at a flower place)... she was like how do you know it's mine... maybe it's from my roomate katie... anyway I know I need to ask her if she is dating other people just to see where I stand. we played until 12 something (after Mike called... I didn't pick up his call of course). So I asked her if she wants go on more dates and she is like I don't know... then I was like are you dating someone and she goes ya... the 'I am gonna date one person kind of ya' instead of 'hey I am dating you and this other guy and I need to think which one is better ya' So I say bye and drove home... Nothing personnel for me... don't feel reject or anything because I wasn't really looking for a gf anyway =)

she just msg me...

to be continue.

 

2:10am

ok we finished msging. I misinterpret what she said. We chatted and I realized what she meant is she is dating more than 1 person at the sametime and she consider me as her date. When I asked her if she wants to go on more dates she said she doesn't know because she aren't sure if I am cool with her dating more than 1 person at the sametime. So I am still in the game... I'll give it couple of more tries... again... no backflip from me.

What do fellow I-clubbers think?

P.S. My flower is better than that other dude =P

 

Blah...it would've been cool if she told you in advance before you dropped all that money and time on the date.

I really don't like the whole "I'm dating this guy and you" thing...its ridiculous because you're making love into a competition and you hardly know where you stand. Thank god I'm married

 

Piihb Ftw!!!!!1111

 

so the girl is seeing you and another guy, she's not sure on who to pick yet. Sorry I don't know what kind of advice to tell you, but I wish you good luck trying to get her.

 

louis FTW.. don't give up..

 

OMGH2U

 

Well not really picking... she is trying to get to know more about each of her dates... I use to have a thing against it but I learned. We are not bf/gf of course she can sees someone else. I can too...

 

well we cant tell you what to do.

the question is "is she worth it to you?"

you have invested time and money. do you see this going anywhere? are you going out with her because its somethign to do?

what can you get from this person? what do you want from them?
are you using this as practice?

 

yeah get your stable full there louis at least three or four girls and rotate

just dont get them mixxed up hehe

 

Sounds like I need to enlist the help of my fellow i-clubbers? Just to get to know more girls to hang out and have fun...

 

I agreed. I did invest some time and money into this and I do see myself going somewhere... what can I get and what do I want depend with the next couple of dates.

 

enshin01: who were leaving me the msg last night
enshin01: most of you sounded drunk except you
D Duval 059: meh we were soberish
D Duval 059: franco jerry jon ruben fin fins friend me mei and lawson

 

hit up craigslist like the rest of the guys.

 

too much effort. I want to be spoonfeed =)