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Yep single moms are more of a challenge, but if you're serious about it go for it. I understand this is just a date so just see where it goes. If it doesn't go anywhere then no harm, if it does then hats off to you sir 
Single moms I think are more of a challenge because of primarily what RussB said as well as the whole trust issue. Obviously since she's a single mom she may have trust issues with guys because well...obviously the dad didn't work out and is out of the picture so put 2 and 2 together. Just be aware of what you do...you still work with the woman and have to see her from time to time.
Single moms I think are more of a challenge because of primarily what RussB said as well as the whole trust issue. Obviously since she's a single mom she may have trust issues with guys because well...obviously the dad didn't work out and is out of the picture so put 2 and 2 together. Just be aware of what you do...you still work with the woman and have to see her from time to time.
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Yep single moms are more of a challenge, but if you're serious about it go for it. I understand this is just a date so just see where it goes. If it doesn't go anywhere then no harm, if it does then hats off to you sir
Single moms I think are more of a challenge because of primarily what RussB said as well as the whole trust issue. Obviously since she's a single mom she may have trust issues with guys because well...obviously the dad didn't work out and is out of the picture so put 2 and 2 together. Just be aware of what you do...you still work with the woman and have to see her from time to time.
Single moms I think are more of a challenge because of primarily what RussB said as well as the whole trust issue. Obviously since she's a single mom she may have trust issues with guys because well...obviously the dad didn't work out and is out of the picture so put 2 and 2 together. Just be aware of what you do...you still work with the woman and have to see her from time to time.
if the goal is a meaningful relationship, go see shrink cuz i have no idea why you'd want to raise someone else's kid.
you fail to see the logic where a 2002-2003 wrx is a neon...though.
honestly.... I ALWAYS open the door. But, I was raised that thats how you act.
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wtf are you talking about don juan? i said nothing about "more of a challenge", i actually said "less of a challenge" if your goal is just getting some or just having fun.
if the goal is a meaningful relationship, go see shrink cuz i have no idea why you'd want to raise someone else's kid.
if the goal is a meaningful relationship, go see shrink cuz i have no idea why you'd want to raise someone else's kid.
Seriously...I ain't raising no one's brats but my own.
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i dunno about that....
again... dunno about that.
hahah... first date with my last gf I was wearing a 'she has great taste' tshirt.
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lol... bz's with kids... give it up. thats how you know they put out
LOL... true.
i dunno about that....
again... dunno about that.
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serial as a heartattack. girls want to be made to earn any attention they get from you. if you just give give give, all they will do is take take take and walk all over your ***.
don't be a dick, but don't be a doormat. i'd say just be yourself, but refer to the doormat comment...
since she is a single mom, your chances of getting some go up quite a bit for several reasons. a) she has to overcome the big negative of having a kid, gotta compensate somehow. b) it's already out there that she's sleeping with dudes that she isn't married too. c) see a.
don't be a dick, but don't be a doormat. i'd say just be yourself, but refer to the doormat comment...
since she is a single mom, your chances of getting some go up quite a bit for several reasons. a) she has to overcome the big negative of having a kid, gotta compensate somehow. b) it's already out there that she's sleeping with dudes that she isn't married too. c) see a.
lol... bz's with kids... give it up. thats how you know they put out
wtf are you talking about don juan? i said nothing about "more of a challenge", i actually said "less of a challenge" if your goal is just getting some or just having fun.
if the goal is a meaningful relationship, go see shrink cuz i have no idea why you'd want to raise someone else's kid.
if the goal is a meaningful relationship, go see shrink cuz i have no idea why you'd want to raise someone else's kid.
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Oh wow....now I know why there were hella cops on that road as I was going down 680S and saw them there.
Oh wow....now I know why there were hella cops on that road as I was going down 680S and saw them there.
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I'd listen to RussB has said in this thread, and ryball(run! lol), don't be a doormat. You're on a date, you can act semi nice just don't make yourself out to look desperate. If she is pushing for dinner instead of playing pool, because of time. That makes zero sense, because you can play pool in less amount of time then you can eat at a decent dinner spot. The reason she is saying dinner is because dinner is alot more formal and more of a "real" date, but doesn't want to come out and say that.... So I guess that's a good thing for you if you really are looking to make this mommy your girlfriend. Take her out to dinner, not the pool house. The pool house is a better second or third date place since the first date tension is gone and you can be more open and screw around more....
Opening doors for girls is not manditory at all, i've never heard a girl say in her entire life "man I would have ****ed the **** out of that guy but he doesn't open the door for me". Maybe in the 60's but not in the year 2007. I will only open the door for a girl if the door is on my side of the car, I'm not running around to the other side of the car to open the door for her. I also don't think i'll open the door for her on a first date regardless... She has to earn my respect enough to open the door for her LOL
I'd listen to RussB has said in this thread, and ryball(run! lol), don't be a doormat. You're on a date, you can act semi nice just don't make yourself out to look desperate. If she is pushing for dinner instead of playing pool, because of time. That makes zero sense, because you can play pool in less amount of time then you can eat at a decent dinner spot. The reason she is saying dinner is because dinner is alot more formal and more of a "real" date, but doesn't want to come out and say that.... So I guess that's a good thing for you if you really are looking to make this mommy your girlfriend. Take her out to dinner, not the pool house. The pool house is a better second or third date place since the first date tension is gone and you can be more open and screw around more....
Opening doors for girls is not manditory at all, i've never heard a girl say in her entire life "man I would have ****ed the **** out of that guy but he doesn't open the door for me". Maybe in the 60's but not in the year 2007. I will only open the door for a girl if the door is on my side of the car, I'm not running around to the other side of the car to open the door for her. I also don't think i'll open the door for her on a first date regardless... She has to earn my respect enough to open the door for her LOL
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I'd listen to RussB has said in this thread, and ryball(run! lol), don't be a doormat. You're on a date, you can act semi nice just don't make yourself out to look desperate. If she is pushing for dinner instead of playing pool, because of time. That makes zero sense, because you can play pool in less amount of time then you can eat at a decent dinner spot. The reason she is saying dinner is because dinner is alot more formal and more of a "real" date, but doesn't want to come out and say that.... So I guess that's a good thing for you if you really are looking to make this mommy your girlfriend. Take her out to dinner, not the pool house. The pool house is a better second or third date place since the first date tension is gone and you can be more open and screw around more....
Opening doors for girls is not manditory at all, i've never heard a girl say in her entire life "man I would have ****ed the **** out of that guy but he doesn't open the door for me". Maybe in the 60's but not in the year 2007. I will only open the door for a girl if the door is on my side of the car, I'm not running around to the other side of the car to open the door for her. I also don't think i'll open the door for her on a first date regardless... She has to earn my respect enough to open the door for her LOL
I'd listen to RussB has said in this thread, and ryball(run! lol), don't be a doormat. You're on a date, you can act semi nice just don't make yourself out to look desperate. If she is pushing for dinner instead of playing pool, because of time. That makes zero sense, because you can play pool in less amount of time then you can eat at a decent dinner spot. The reason she is saying dinner is because dinner is alot more formal and more of a "real" date, but doesn't want to come out and say that.... So I guess that's a good thing for you if you really are looking to make this mommy your girlfriend. Take her out to dinner, not the pool house. The pool house is a better second or third date place since the first date tension is gone and you can be more open and screw around more....
Opening doors for girls is not manditory at all, i've never heard a girl say in her entire life "man I would have ****ed the **** out of that guy but he doesn't open the door for me". Maybe in the 60's but not in the year 2007. I will only open the door for a girl if the door is on my side of the car, I'm not running around to the other side of the car to open the door for her. I also don't think i'll open the door for her on a first date regardless... She has to earn my respect enough to open the door for her LOL
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I guess since you kids grew up on central door locks, you didn't grow up with the habit of opening other people's doors for them.
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Thanks for the tips.
I've always opened the door for girls on dates, so it's pretty natural for me to do that. I've always told myself I'd never date a girl with a kid, but I figure she seems interested and fun, so why not see how it goes. Plus I gain more experience with the wimmenz. And not being a doormat won't be a problem.
If nothing else, maybe I'll at least get a hot workout partner for the gym.
One other question, who pays for pool/dinner?
I've always opened the door for girls on dates, so it's pretty natural for me to do that. I've always told myself I'd never date a girl with a kid, but I figure she seems interested and fun, so why not see how it goes. Plus I gain more experience with the wimmenz. And not being a doormat won't be a problem.
If nothing else, maybe I'll at least get a hot workout partner for the gym.
One other question, who pays for pool/dinner?
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It's not chivalry, it's not trying to get action, you open the door for any woman. Feminazis will get pissed, **** 'em. Doens't mean you get walked all over and do everything, but there's nothing wrong with a little tradition.