soooo anyone mind letting me borrow their relay ONLY to put in my car and see if it will start or blow my fuse? Mine i might of messed up through some crazy scientific method of being dumb and taking it apart.

 

so from what i understand from your post you did a mod to the relay and as long as you manually trigger the relay it does not blow the fuse?
are you using a different power source to trigger the relay ?
if you are using the same power source then its just a bad relay, if the resistance of the trigger circuit in the relay is too high you will blow fuses

 

Well i found a minutely damaged rear o2 sensor wire. fixed it (temp) but since my relay isnt properly working I dont know if that was the fix.

@wrx I plug the relay back into original spot and when i turn the key it will not click on. I have to manually do it myself. I am gonna check around for any other messed up fuses.

 

Yeah so got the new relay in the mail. The damaged rear O2 sensor was what was blowing my fuse.

 

glad you figured it out, electrical problems are the worst!!

 

now for my ABS. Not all that important but would like to get rid of lit dash lights WITHOUT removing bulbs