yeah its not that i want to be seperated.. i think it might just be the way it needs to be for a while. and if our hearts are truly for each other.. then we will be waiting for each other when she finished school.

when i was talking about how i think she needs to follow her goal and leave us out of her goal because i do not think that love should be apart of the goal.. love will work its self out if meant to be... hence hearing so many stories about breaking up and going your own way.. then 6 years later meeting again and getting married.. i have heard so many similar stories to that.. and it makes me believe that if its meant to be it will happen.. but if we end up meeting new people then maybe that is how it is supposed to be.

 

Moving down there together would require a huge commitment..you're basically saying she's the one for you. It's a "**** or get off the pot" moment. If she's not the girl you want to be your wife right now at this exact stage she's in...then don't go with her. If you feel like she has stuff she still needs to take care of and she can't do that with you there, then don't let her come with.

If you can do the long distance thing...then you can do that. Don't go into an open ended long distance deal though, because that could end up a long term long distance and 2-3 years from now if it didn't work out you'd be upset you "wasted" all that time without even really having someone. Also, I don't know how you are about talking on the phone..but hanging out on the phone for 2-4 hours a night is not what I want to be doing. I want to be living life...not talking about it on the phone.

 

so... ummm... what's holly's phone number????


jk...

dude... looks like you know already what's gonna happen. just let it roll. and wish for the best.

sometimes, you just gotta do, what a man's gotta do. and that's to let her go. better to leave as friends, instead of enemies.

good luck....



ummm is mikela single????

 

the ratio of girls to guys in SD around the colleges is amazing plus there are a lot of nor cal and bay chicks who go to school or work down there so i mean its easy to bring one home if a relationship leads to that and you move back here.

 

wait... how do you know mikela?

 

right now it's a need to know basis... but let's just say vegas, 2004, lots of booze, skinny dipping where we shouldnt, cops show up, lots of fast talking and eventually sent home...

so...

 

haha i just called her and she has no idea lol seriously how do you know her?!? haha

 

tell her to call me...

remember... what happens in vegas... well you know the rest...

 

damn liar.. she hasnt been to vegas in many years,

 

lol...

cant believe it's went this far...

the pix you showed of your GF and her friend, she was wearing her name tag from US BANK...

so...

is she single?

 

i just want to say................

im very impressed with the level of relationship maturity from most of the guys on this board

 

oh no ****. i didnt even think about that. good point


n blacktraxgirl i agree it has helped me a great deal.

 

so.. is she single and "looking"?????

i feel like i've known her for years by now....

 

who holly or mikela?

 

both????