Need some advice...
Need some advice...
I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.
I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been having an affair.
The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife.
I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.
I decided I was going to hide behind my truck which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my truck that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.
Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?
I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been having an affair.
The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife.
I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.
I decided I was going to hide behind my truck which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my truck that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.
Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?
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When I worked in a shop in Florida, one of the other supervisor came in cussing one day, "my wife is sleeping around while I'm at work!"
The guy who sits next to me heard this and went over to this guys house and slept with her too. When the husband got home he found them both.
Work wasn't too smooth between these guys after that.
The guy who sits next to me heard this and went over to this guys house and slept with her too. When the husband got home he found them both.
Work wasn't too smooth between these guys after that.
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LMFAO! Um... I suspect your wife up to something. I'd see wassup. I personally, don't trust people.
As for the truck, fix it while on patrol for which car your wife steps out of. Something to do in the meanwhile. Also, a great excuse of being outside so your wife can't yell at you or anything.
If it's at night, just be like... well I got bored and I wanted to work on a car! Then nail her and ask her who dropped her off tonight...
As for the truck, fix it while on patrol for which car your wife steps out of. Something to do in the meanwhile. Also, a great excuse of being outside so your wife can't yell at you or anything.
If it's at night, just be like... well I got bored and I wanted to work on a car! Then nail her and ask her who dropped her off tonight...
i'd play dumb and act like i don't know anything, but i'd document the whole thing, then take everything and bounce up out. There's no easy way out, sorry to hear you have to go through this dude.
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Originally Posted by percula
i'd play dumb and act like i don't know anything, but i'd document the whole thing, then take everything and bounce up out. There's no easy way out, sorry to hear you have to go through this dude.
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