View Poll Results: Grounds for Divorce !?!?
Yes! Leave!!!
7
20.00%
NO! Love will prevail!!!
8
22.86%
Stay with her but get a mistress!!!
16
45.71%
Sex?!?! It's over rated!!!
4
11.43%
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Grounds for Divroce!?!?
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Originally posted by wrxtacy
so what is your friend doing for his wife to comfort her about her new job and stress? women under stress will not feel like having sex, not like a man. a man is always ready whenever. we all don't know the full details of the situation, he wants it, she doesn't, but is he doing anything to help her in the new job? maybe she is bored with the same old thing?
its like almost every relationship, in the beginning they always got presents or little things here and there because you were still trying to win her heart, and now that u have it, u stop doing all those little things, like flowers, or going out on dates. women will always want that feeling of being wanted and persued, and when they stop, so will she.
tell your friend to try it out. do something he used to do with his wife that he did in the beginning stages of the relationship. it might just work.
so what is your friend doing for his wife to comfort her about her new job and stress? women under stress will not feel like having sex, not like a man. a man is always ready whenever. we all don't know the full details of the situation, he wants it, she doesn't, but is he doing anything to help her in the new job? maybe she is bored with the same old thing?
its like almost every relationship, in the beginning they always got presents or little things here and there because you were still trying to win her heart, and now that u have it, u stop doing all those little things, like flowers, or going out on dates. women will always want that feeling of being wanted and persued, and when they stop, so will she.
tell your friend to try it out. do something he used to do with his wife that he did in the beginning stages of the relationship. it might just work.
thats very true too! its worth a shot.
I don't think your friend can work it, and the chick is just tired of being humped on. Maybe you should ask him about his skills.
She may also be gay.
I'm christian as well and we all make mistakes-or pick the wrong mates. Too many fish in the sea to waste time hanging with a dead clam. But I do agree he should give it more time at this point. if their relationship is really strong, this is nothing. Sorry if this was said but i didn't want to read the whole thread.
She may also be gay.
I'm christian as well and we all make mistakes-or pick the wrong mates. Too many fish in the sea to waste time hanging with a dead clam. But I do agree he should give it more time at this point. if their relationship is really strong, this is nothing. Sorry if this was said but i didn't want to read the whole thread.
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This happened to a buddy of mine after we graduated college.
He tried everything to no avail. They eventually got a divorce after 2.5 years of marrage.
He tried everything to no avail. They eventually got a divorce after 2.5 years of marrage.
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I don't think my buddy is a dud in the sack. But I wouldn't really know. But she told me she had no complaints. My buddy is one of the nicest person I know and takes care of his wife. He still gives her flowers and gifts.
Anyway, I told my buddy to wait a bit and see. If things don't get better after Christmas, I heard she'll have vacation then, then he might go to a tharapist.
I still think she is just consumed with work and needs time to adjust to her work schedule and work load. He had told me that before she got her new job, she was less busy and had more time to think about sex. Now he said she hardly or never thinks about it.
I wish them luck myself. If I was him I would wait too. But NOT forever.
Anyway, I told my buddy to wait a bit and see. If things don't get better after Christmas, I heard she'll have vacation then, then he might go to a tharapist.
I still think she is just consumed with work and needs time to adjust to her work schedule and work load. He had told me that before she got her new job, she was less busy and had more time to think about sex. Now he said she hardly or never thinks about it.
I wish them luck myself. If I was him I would wait too. But NOT forever.
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Some women believe that love has nothing to do with sex. I believe sex has nothing to do with love.
If you have a woman that loves you - but won't give it up, you have the unenviable task of finding a woman that will give it up, but won't love you!
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