Please be more specific about what you mean by "doesn't fit" and then maybe we can help you.
As for adjustment, do you mean the physical way to adjust them, or the proper procedure? For the former, there are two plastic adjustment screws behind each lamp, one does a diagonal adjustment that moves both horizontal and vertical position (set this one first), the other does only vertical. There are also other adjusting screws that are covered by plastic caps, these should be left alone as they are only used with the leveling motor option sold with Euro versions.
For an example of a procedure for adjusting E-code spec lights such as Morettes, look here:
http://www.humanspeakers.com/audi/headlight-aiming.htm

 

i don't see why they fit so poorly, i think they look good. maybe its just me, i've only seen one pair in person. either way nice car man.

 

Can I ask where you bought your headlamps?

Thanks