What do you guys do when you've just had your heart broken into a billion pieces. Never been there before, never felt like this. Don't feel like doing anything, can't sleep. Don't wanna get into a car....

 

what happened bro? I think you got my celly, call me up if you feel like talking

 

What the heck happened man? You were in good spirits just 2 hours ago.

I hope that you are alright, and that everything is OK.

Take care man,

Andy

 

been seing this girl amy, we were perfect for each other, but she just got out of another LONG relationship and when it started getting serious, she couldn't do it. and thanks for the offer guys.

yeah, i kinda felt it coming the last couple days but it is still just starting to hit me. i hate to put stuff like this on the boards, but to be honest i just don't give a **** right now.

 

It's a tough thing to deal with...period. It's just going to take time. It's a good idea to stay away from the car, that could lead to bad things. I'd just try to hang around good friends and think/talk about other crap. Anything to get your mind off it.

-Brian

 

Sorry to hear that man! What a bummer.

At least you didn't crash your new car, because that is what I was thinking that you were implying.

Keep your chin up man!

Andy

 

damn im sorry Tim. Im sure time will heal your wounds...

Thats what BAIC is for, people to hang out with, good company

 

Originally posted by Steppin Razor
What do you guys do when you've just had your heart broken into a billion pieces. Never been there before, never felt like this. Don't feel like doing anything, can't sleep.
Common sense rules. Don't drive and don't drink alcohol if you're really upset. If it feels like things are the worst they've ever been and you don't see how you'll ever feel better, call a close friend or family member right away.

You are suffering from depression. The end of a relationship, especially if one or both parties don't want it to end (yes, it can happen), can feel almost as devastating as the death of a family member. Gotta put it into perspective. It isn't the end of the world. You're still the same person you were before you met her. Whether you're with a girl or not, a relationship doesn't define who you are. Steppin (if I can call you by your first name), the main thing to remember here is that you, as a person, have a great deal of worth. We know it, but the important thing is that you have to know and believe it.

I've been there. You might feel like no one could possibly feel this much pain and move on but we do. You will too. I wish I could tell you that it'll happen by tomorrow morning but the healing takes time. It won't be as long as you might think, though.

There will be a brighter day.

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0==WW==0
"…axles of evil…" - george w. bush

 

I have been there too bro. Only time will heal up your wounds. Yes, you will feel like ish for a while. You won't be able to get out of bed, or eat, or talk to anyone else, except type here, but you will come back to normal. It just takes time to get over a woman.

Another thing, don't think that she is heartless as well (or she might be, only you know), and doesn't also feel the same pain you do. Women can hide their pain pretty well, but if she had the same feelings for you as you did for her, she is hurting as well. So you are not the only one that feels the way you do.

 

Hey Tim,

Don't worry about it man! just keep it cool w/ her as a friend for now, and try act like this has not bother you a bit when you see her. If she really has a thing for ya, she will come back!

Take it easy bud!

Cal

 

W3RD
nobody can resist teh Tim haha

 

think happy thoughts... talk to your friends... another thing for you to think about... i don't know the whole story, but if you really like her, be patient. you never know what is going to happen few months down the road.

 

Ugh, rebound relationship? Just take it easy, and remember that doing less for the first few weeks is probably better than doing more. After a month or two, drag yourself outside if you have to, but I doubt you'll need to do that.

Good luck!

 

Sound advice from everybody. I have to agree with all that was said, and include to keep your chin up. Time heals all wounds. It's frustrating because you want it (the pain) to be over now, but it can't because processes similar to this one take time. Don't let it get you down, and everything will play out how it's meant to. Good luck, and drive safe!

Also, chicken soup for times like these calls for a viewing of your favorite movie with your close buds, always works for me!!!

 

Blah... is this the first real relationship you have been in? Meaning, the first girl you really liked? If so, you are screwed man... there is no cure... Only thing you can do is keep yourself busy. Go run... I used to do that. I used to drive too... how do you think I got 23mins on hamilton? Yep... after a girl.

Anyway, you'll be ok dude... just takes some time.