trying to plan my buddies bacholer party
hey man, last time I play laser tag it was great! I don't think we get to do it again. But last time we knew someone that work at the place. We went after hour we took all the guns out and played out door! There used to be a Q-Zar in SF before and we were running around in that building to play the laser tag. Set everything to unlimited so we don't have to go back in. 
Some people can't live without hitting the strip bars before they hitch, that's cool, to each of their own. But I understand where evsoul's friend is coming from. And I am sure there are PLENTY of guys out there didn't visit strip bars before they got married.
I don't know, maybe because I am Chinese and wasn't born here so I am not all that 'up-to-date' with the rule for BP. But if one would HAVE to hit the strip bars before he gets married to 'get it out of his system'. Maybe he is not ready to get married... Who is there to say it won't get 'back into' his system?
To me, BP is just to have a blast with your closest friends doing things you like to do. Even if it means visiting chuck-e-cheese!
I don't know, maybe because I am Chinese and wasn't born here so I am not all that 'up-to-date' with the rule for BP. But if one would HAVE to hit the strip bars before he gets married to 'get it out of his system'. Maybe he is not ready to get married... Who is there to say it won't get 'back into' his system?
To me, BP is just to have a blast with your closest friends doing things you like to do. Even if it means visiting chuck-e-cheese!
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I don't know, the bachelor parties that I have planned,
Rule#1 I don't give a crap about your wishes or the wishes of you lady.
Rule#2 You asked me to plan it; so really it's MY party. I like to party...
Rule#3 Refer to rule #1
Rule#4 If you don't like it; that's cool. I still have a couple of strippers coming over at 9pm, at least I'm going to have fun.
Rule#1 I don't give a crap about your wishes or the wishes of you lady.
Rule#2 You asked me to plan it; so really it's MY party. I like to party...
Rule#3 Refer to rule #1
Rule#4 If you don't like it; that's cool. I still have a couple of strippers coming over at 9pm, at least I'm going to have fun.
Note to self: Have Jeff plan my bachelor party. Or hell, even my next birfday party.
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I'm very curious why he doesn't want strippers? If He's that insecure with his marriage then he shouldn't be getting married in my opinion. What's a night of seeing cooter(stealing your word Jeff) and boobies? I mean he doesn't have to put his ***** in one of them if He doesn't want to.
It never hurts to look. Well unless she's on private property - then its illegal.
It never hurts to look. Well unless she's on private property - then its illegal.
its about he doesn't want to. hes partied enough in his life(believe me). hes happy with the girl hes with and is getting married because he feels he found the right girl and doesn't need a stripper to officialize it. .
not every guy is into strippers... ive been to a strip club a couple times and thought it was retarded and will probably never go back to one.. other than the wonderful lusty lady
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Some people can't live without hitting the strip bars before they hitch, that's cool, to each of their own. But I understand where evsoul's friend is coming from. And I am sure there are PLENTY of guys out there didn't visit strip bars before they got married.
I don't know, maybe because I am Chinese and wasn't born here so I am not all that 'up-to-date' with the rule for BP. But if one would HAVE to hit the strip bars before he gets married to 'get it out of his system'. Maybe he is not ready to get married... Who is there to say it won't get 'back into' his system?
To me, BP is just to have a blast with your closest friends doing things you like to do. Even if it means visting chuck-e-cheese!
I don't know, maybe because I am Chinese and wasn't born here so I am not all that 'up-to-date' with the rule for BP. But if one would HAVE to hit the strip bars before he gets married to 'get it out of his system'. Maybe he is not ready to get married... Who is there to say it won't get 'back into' his system?
To me, BP is just to have a blast with your closest friends doing things you like to do. Even if it means visting chuck-e-cheese!
you shouldn't NEED to get anything out of your system.. one last hurrah... you should have it out of your system by the time you propose to the girl.. proposing should be apart of "i don't need that stuff anymore, im ready to settle down a bit"
and your last sentence is said for the truth.
what, the chuck-e-cheese part? 
but yes, by the time you propose, you should have gotten everything that need to be out of your system out before you get married. now, that's not to say strippers are not part of 'having a blast' with your friends. But it should be viewed as an option, not a must.
In evsoul's friend's case, he simply crossed that option out, that's all.
With that said :RockOn - not mine:
but yes, by the time you propose, you should have gotten everything that need to be out of your system out before you get married. now, that's not to say strippers are not part of 'having a blast' with your friends. But it should be viewed as an option, not a must.
In evsoul's friend's case, he simply crossed that option out, that's all.
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its not about that..
its about he doesn't want to. hes partied enough in his life(believe me). hes happy with the girl hes with and is getting married because he feels he found the right girl and doesn't need a stripper to officialize it. .
not every guy is into strippers... ive been to a strip club a couple times and thought it was retarded and will probably never go back to one.. other than the wonderful lusty lady in SF
its about he doesn't want to. hes partied enough in his life(believe me). hes happy with the girl hes with and is getting married because he feels he found the right girl and doesn't need a stripper to officialize it. .
not every guy is into strippers... ive been to a strip club a couple times and thought it was retarded and will probably never go back to one.. other than the wonderful lusty lady
in SF"Young man, just think of it this way. You're bachellor party isn't for you at all. Tommorow is you're day to shine infront of the audience. You're bachellor party is for all your loser friends to have an excuse to oogle naked woman and get ****ed up."
Worse comes to worse if he doesn't want the attention have one of your friends pretend to be the bachellor - cos i guarentee they will reap sooooo many benefits....
My vote is still for surprise strippers. *he might get angry, but if hes as commited to his woman, and partied for years, he shouldn't really care about it. Just think "entertainment for people who aren't getting married *or coincidentially people whove been married for a while* If He gets truely offended by it refeer to Rule #1, 2, and possibly 3
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I don't know, the bachelor parties that I have planned, Rule #1 I don't give a crap about your wishes or the wishes of you lady.
Rule#2 You asked me to plan it; so really it's MY party. I like to party...
Rule#3 Refer to rule #1
Rule#4 If you don't like it; that's cool. I still have a couple of strippers coming over at 9pm, at least I'm going to have fun.
Rule#2 You asked me to plan it; so really it's MY party. I like to party...
Rule#3 Refer to rule #1
Rule#4 If you don't like it; that's cool. I still have a couple of strippers coming over at 9pm, at least I'm going to have fun.
Tell him there will be no strippers. Then get him ****faced. Then bring on the strippers. No drunk guy can resist strippers. Don't go to a club. Outcall.