soooo OT!!!
Thread Starter
Registered User
Joined: Jan 2007
Posts: 193
From: Livermore,Ca
Car Info: 2007 White STi
Not to sound like a dick, but I seriously think you're overreacting as is everyone else on the boards. It's been a day, one day. I don't know the guy, so I can't personally say what could be bothering him, however, maybe something happened and he doesn't have time to talk right now. Heck, looking at the date, maybe his family is taking up a lot of his time, thanksgiving is just around the corner. 
.
Obviously, he still put in the effort to atleast ask that your plane landed safely. Give the guy some space and time, don't be so clingy, and let him talk to you when he feels ready. One thing which I've had to learn the hard way, is to let your S.O. work on their own schedule, don't try to force anything out of them, be patient and show you care by giving them the time they need.
I'd say give him a few more days, maybe a week or whatever you would feel necessary, if he still doesn't reply, then shoot him an email explaining your thoughts, confusion, and if any type of friction has become between both of you, you wish that he would be able to explain it, as there could be a misunderstanding. Since he lives out in Tracy, it's a bit much to drive out there to try and talk to him, but if he's worth the drive, he's worth the drive, and no, driving to his place is not being a stalker. If no answer comes out of it, then, it's time to move on.
.Obviously, he still put in the effort to atleast ask that your plane landed safely. Give the guy some space and time, don't be so clingy, and let him talk to you when he feels ready. One thing which I've had to learn the hard way, is to let your S.O. work on their own schedule, don't try to force anything out of them, be patient and show you care by giving them the time they need.
I'd say give him a few more days, maybe a week or whatever you would feel necessary, if he still doesn't reply, then shoot him an email explaining your thoughts, confusion, and if any type of friction has become between both of you, you wish that he would be able to explain it, as there could be a misunderstanding. Since he lives out in Tracy, it's a bit much to drive out there to try and talk to him, but if he's worth the drive, he's worth the drive, and no, driving to his place is not being a stalker. If no answer comes out of it, then, it's time to move on.
Thanks for sounding like a dick...it helped. But...I think if your dating someone and you need space, you tell them you need space, and trust me, I am not clingy. ha ha..
Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 12 (12 members and 0 guests)
ipozestu, Superglue WRX, karis119, ryball, 1hotsuby, GSMotorsports, teamipr, STi-owns-evo, nokio, soggynoodles
The official "nothing to do on Monday thread"
ipozestu, Superglue WRX, karis119, ryball, 1hotsuby, GSMotorsports, teamipr, STi-owns-evo, nokio, soggynoodles
The official "nothing to do on Monday thread"
Boy, won't we all feel silly when we find out he is in the hospital because he crashed his bicycle while texting her about her flight on his way to pick up oil and a filter.
Thread Starter
Registered User
Joined: Jan 2007
Posts: 193
From: Livermore,Ca
Car Info: 2007 White STi
