soooo OT!!!
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Eh - unless something was wrong to begin with, he shouldn't be acting that way. Sounds like this relationship was cursed from the beginning, since you didn't really like him anyway. Now that he's acting this way, when you do care, I say it's time to leave.
That or his cell phone really is bust - or there's some type of family emergency.
That or his cell phone really is bust - or there's some type of family emergency.
A: He finally talks.
B: I see him...somewhere
c: I just get over it and let it go....
Me thinks you don't know his birfday, that's why he's not talking to you. Hell he probably had it birfday party planned and you went to Vegas for a midget orgy. I'd be pissed too. I've always wanted to go to a midget orgy.
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His birfday is on July 29...and Midget orgys are AWESOME....lol
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If he has any insecurity issues, he is definitely butt hurt. The whole "whataver happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas" thing was probably gnawing at him all wknd. God bless their marketing machine!
Also, how committed in the relationship are each of you? How even are the "scales" here?
Like someone already said, ya won't know till his a$$ opens up & tells ya. Could be a li'l misunderstanding... bad timing (i.e. misplaced his phone at inopportune time = sux... happened to me once)... who knows?
I wouldn't fret too much. All this speculation gets ya nowhere.
G'luck, chica.
Also, how committed in the relationship are each of you? How even are the "scales" here?
Like someone already said, ya won't know till his a$$ opens up & tells ya. Could be a li'l misunderstanding... bad timing (i.e. misplaced his phone at inopportune time = sux... happened to me once)... who knows?
I wouldn't fret too much. All this speculation gets ya nowhere.
G'luck, chica.
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Not to sound like a dick, but I seriously think you're overreacting as is everyone else on the boards. It's been a day, one day. I don't know the guy, so I can't personally say what could be bothering him, however, maybe something happened and he doesn't have time to talk right now. Heck, looking at the date, maybe his family is taking up a lot of his time, thanksgiving is just around the corner. 
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Obviously, he still put in the effort to atleast ask that your plane landed safely. Give the guy some space and time, don't be so clingy, and let him talk to you when he feels ready. One thing which I've had to learn the hard way, is to let your S.O. work on their own schedule, don't try to force anything out of them, be patient and show you care by giving them the time they need.
I'd say give him a few more days, maybe a week or whatever you would feel necessary, if he still doesn't reply, then shoot him an email explaining your thoughts, confusion, and if any type of friction has become between both of you, you wish that he would be able to explain it, as there could be a misunderstanding. Since he lives out in Tracy, it's a bit much to drive out there to try and talk to him, but if he's worth the drive, he's worth the drive, and no, driving to his place is not being a stalker. If no answer comes out of it, then, it's time to move on.
.Obviously, he still put in the effort to atleast ask that your plane landed safely. Give the guy some space and time, don't be so clingy, and let him talk to you when he feels ready. One thing which I've had to learn the hard way, is to let your S.O. work on their own schedule, don't try to force anything out of them, be patient and show you care by giving them the time they need.
I'd say give him a few more days, maybe a week or whatever you would feel necessary, if he still doesn't reply, then shoot him an email explaining your thoughts, confusion, and if any type of friction has become between both of you, you wish that he would be able to explain it, as there could be a misunderstanding. Since he lives out in Tracy, it's a bit much to drive out there to try and talk to him, but if he's worth the drive, he's worth the drive, and no, driving to his place is not being a stalker. If no answer comes out of it, then, it's time to move on.
Alright me thinks you just left him hanging. You were too selfish to invite him to the midget orgy. Had to have it all for yourself... I'm mad at you now too. Where was my invitation?
Not to sound like a dick, but I seriously think you're overreacting as is everyone else on the boards. It's been a day, one day. I don't know the guy, so I can't personally say what could be bothering him, however, maybe something happened and he doesn't have time to talk right now. Heck, looking at the date, maybe his family is taking up a lot of his time .
Obviously, he still put in the effort to atleast ask that your plane landed safely. Give the guy some space and time, don't be so clingy, and let him talk to you when he feels ready. One thing which I've had to learn the hard way, is to let your S.O. work on their own schedule, don't try to force anything out of them, be patient and show you care by giving them the time they need.
I'd say give him a few more days, maybe a week or whatever you would feel necessary, if he still doesn't reply, then shoot him an email explaining your thoughts, confusion, and if any type of friction has become between both of you, you wish that he would be able to explain it, as there could be a misunderstanding. Since he lives out in Tracy, it's a bit much to drive out there to try and talk to him, but if he's worth the drive, he's worth the drive, and no, driving to his place is not being a stalker. If no answer comes out of it, then, it's time to move on.
.Obviously, he still put in the effort to atleast ask that your plane landed safely. Give the guy some space and time, don't be so clingy, and let him talk to you when he feels ready. One thing which I've had to learn the hard way, is to let your S.O. work on their own schedule, don't try to force anything out of them, be patient and show you care by giving them the time they need.
I'd say give him a few more days, maybe a week or whatever you would feel necessary, if he still doesn't reply, then shoot him an email explaining your thoughts, confusion, and if any type of friction has become between both of you, you wish that he would be able to explain it, as there could be a misunderstanding. Since he lives out in Tracy, it's a bit much to drive out there to try and talk to him, but if he's worth the drive, he's worth the drive, and no, driving to his place is not being a stalker. If no answer comes out of it, then, it's time to move on.