If a guy asks his girlfriend to move in with him, does she have to pay rent?

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Old Sep 24, 2014 | 03:19 PM
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No such thing in this country. You must import.
Has anyone here or know of anyone that has imported?
Old Sep 24, 2014 | 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted by joltdudeuc
I see that as reality, in that, I see this all the time.

However I really feel that women are men's equals. They can pay for their tab, they can carry the bags, they can change the oil...

The key is if they want to and few do. This I blame on gender roles. You better believe all my kids will be able to sew, change oil, shoot guns and be compassionate. I plan to fully raise them all as equals and hope they see that.
My chick is a better shot than me with her rifles, can do a basic tune up on her Subie herself, and really does have the ability to take care of herself completely. That doesn't means he WANTS to do everything I still do all things car related, clean the guns, take out the garbage, etc... But, I know how to do everything for myself also, because I've lived on my own. I try to raise my kids to be completely independent as well.
Old Sep 24, 2014 | 04:06 PM
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My chick is a better shot than me with her rifles, can do a basic tune up on her Subie herself, and really does have the ability to take care of herself completely. That doesn't means he WANTS to do everything I still do all things car related, clean the guns, take out the garbage, etc... But, I know how to do everything for myself also, because I've lived on my own. I try to raise my kids to be completely independent as well.
He / She ?
Old Sep 24, 2014 | 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by wombatsauce
No such thing in this country. You must import.
Which part are you talking about? Mail or male order brides

Originally Posted by joltdudeuc
I see that as reality, in that, I see this all the time.

However I really feel that women are men's equals. They can pay for their tab, they can carry the bags, they can change the oil...

The key is if they want to and few do. This I blame on gender roles. You better believe all my kids will be able to sew, change oil, shoot guns and be compassionate. I plan to fully raise them all as equals and hope they see that.
Completely agreed. My girlfriend can and does change her own oil, field strip and clean guns, pay for dinners, etc...but she finds it thoughtful/considerate/romantic if I occasionally offer to do those things instead. The important thing is that no action is taken for granted or "just expected", which I think is the oftentimes missing part.

I personally don't care what arrangement couples have (traditional, equal, sugar daddy)...just as long as everyone is aware of what they are getting into from the start.

Originally Posted by sigma pi
Has anyone here or know of anyone that has imported?
Indeed.
Old Sep 24, 2014 | 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by sigma pi
Has anyone here or know of anyone that has imported?
I am married to a Swede. If you have the means, I highly recommend picking one up.
Old Sep 24, 2014 | 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by wombatsauce
I am married to a Swede. If you have the means, I highly recommend picking one up.
Is it so choice?
Old Sep 24, 2014 | 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by LxJLthr
Indeed.
Go on.
Old Sep 24, 2014 | 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted by sigma pi
Go on.
Oh man, you seriously must not like your knee caps to be asking Russians such questions
Old Sep 25, 2014 | 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by jellochex
he / she ?

SHE Typo
Old Sep 25, 2014 | 02:02 PM
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Oh man, you seriously must not like your knee caps to be asking Russians such questions
Pffft Russians, I thought we were talking the good stuff Ukraine
Old Sep 25, 2014 | 02:10 PM
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Pffft Russians, I thought we were talking the good stuff Ukraine
Oh we import from all over the old block...Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Poland, Czech Republic...If we don't got it, you don't want it!
Old Sep 25, 2014 | 02:49 PM
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Oh we import from all over the old block...Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Poland, Czech Republic...If we don't got it, you don't want it!
What do you have in stock? Do I get a carfax?
Old Sep 25, 2014 | 02:57 PM
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What do you have in stock? Do I get a carfax?
That depends. Do you want a cheaper base model that typically appeals to wider audience and has a high user turnover ratio...ooooor would you you like to custom order a more luxurious (higher maintenance) model with a specific attributes that satisfy your needs?

And do you get a CarFax? As long as you have the money, I will forge...ergh...procure whatever paperwork that makes you sleep at night
Old Sep 25, 2014 | 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted by sigma pi
Has anyone here or know of anyone that has imported?
Yes, he got and married a Filipino woman. Then got taken for Half in the divorce after She waited until she could legally divorce and not loose her citizenship. She also used him to get family members flown into the US.
This was years ago..
Old Sep 25, 2014 | 03:49 PM
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Yes, he got and married a Filipino woman. Then got taken for Half in the divorce after She waited until she could legally divorce and not loose her citizenship. She also used him to get family members flown into the US.
This was years ago..
He got off easy!!!

They can say you hit them, they get to stay and they still get your money BUT they dont have to wait the 5 years.



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