You just have to do what you have to do. Guys always get the rap for being dogs and crap like that! Sure there are a few...but most of us are pretty normal Point is, I know more girls who have screwed over guys and their relationships than the other way around. I know a girl who dumped my friend (for no reason given!) a couple days before they moved into their new apartment. He was packed and had moved out, now he has no place to live and of course is emotionally ruined! I'm not saying all girls are evil, but they have double standards up the wazoo! I'm sure you guys in relationships know what I'm saying

 

damn that story sounds familiar.... her names not tiffany is it

 

she sounds bitter because she wanted him to be miserable for a longer period of time.

its not fair that he found someone that quickly and did not have to dwell on losing her.

women are evil

 

+1 on WAPCE

 

Werd..she probably got with the "other guy" only to find out he had a small pee pee and started to treat her like crap once he hit it

 

with the circle of friends thing.


I'd advise him to tell his story and not worry about who picks what side. It sucks but at different times in life sometimes you have to leave friends behind.

The friends that choose hers aren't worth working for.

Seriously....he needs to worry about what he wants and if it's this relationship then screw everyone else. I had people tell me to get out of my relationship to my now wife....they're not my friends any more.

The ones that are worth the effort will come around.

 

everytime that she gets in his face about dating so soon after the break up just tell your friend to bring up she's the one that broke it off. and plus, a year is not such a long time. like chris rock said in that one movie, if your in a relationship for 1 years and you break up, you've been breaking up for six months.

 

request:

pics of EX and new, so we can decide if he made the right choice

lol

 

first off, i agree that she has no right to have a say in what he's been up to.

however, if there was no attraction anymore (or it sounds like there never was?), why didn't he just break up with her instead of letting it go on? because he would have felt bad for leaving her to pursue the girl he wanted to date in the first place? it sounds like he was never emotionally attached to the EX to begin with and was looking for the EX to make the move so that he can feel okay about going after the other girl.

they both wanted out of the relationship to get with someone else and they both did. the EX is complaining about it. tell your friend to ignore all that, but realize that it could have been avoided if he never asked out the EX when he liked someone else.

 

eh, there's always some attachment when your having sex with the person.

 

Yep, you hit the nail dead on the head.


funny as to how many people can relate to this situation... hell, even I can. WAPCE!!!!!

 

Because if it has boobies and doesn't have a ****, we'll go through a lot of crap to keep it

 

The girl is just angry that he's moving on so quickly. It could be that she really loved him at one point, but during the year when they became comfortable with each other, the guy stops doing all the impressive/romantic things that he used to do for her and she probably stopped doing some things herself. Towards the end she probably felt she needed to be with someone else who could spark some fire. Maybe she was thinking that he didn't put much effort into their relationship and it hurts her to see that he is ready to put his effort elsewhere.

A lot of times when a relationship ends up sour, both guy and girl only see how much the other person has hurt them, but can't look past that and see what faults they had contributed.

It will probably take some time for both of them to realize what they did wrong in the relationship, but it definitely won't help them when their mutual friends are taking sides. Their friends have no rights whatsoever to be doing that. It only just helps sway the individuals that was in the relationship to think that they are in the right.

 

whats done is done.

they broke up. like everyone else said.. the key word is "EX"

let it be and move on. any hard feelings that resides.... well thats all on them and their own damn fault. if they wanna big deal about it... then any repercussions is all on them.

 

**** that, break up is a break up, all bets are off after that.

if the first relationship was as unloving as you're saying, then the second shouldn't have anything to do with the first.