This girl Im seeing I think she is reading my emails behind my back, or she has access to my email account from home.

Its been about 5 or 6 weird coincidences in a row... for example, one of my friends emailed me last week about our plans for Saturday and two minutes after it came in, she called me asking what we were doing on Saturday and if I had plans.

No big deal, right?

Then another friend was putting together a pub-crawl, and 5 minutes after I get the email from her, this girl calls asking for her number so she can coordinate with her about something. Next thing I hear, the pub crawl is off.

Two days later, my ex emails me about something we were going to do together and again, not 5 minutes after it comes through, she calls, asking if I had seen or talked to my ex recently.

Im pretty sure she is... is this bad?

 

Is it bad is something you need to ask yourself.

Try confronting her or ..changing your password?

 

I think you should ask her if she has access to your email. Seems like she's being possesive.

 

This is a big no no. A clear and undisputed sign of a crazy chick.

By crazy chick, I meant no disrespect, just callin' it like I sees it.

 

captain obvious strikes again

 

If she has access to your emails and is reading them, then there is obviously no trust. What's even worse is that it seems as if she's meddling in your plans... Why be in a relationship without trust?

Reading emails, meddling in your affairs and not trusting = recipe for disaster. Don't have kids with the woman.

Relationship drama aside, why not change your password?

 

hell no!! but you also should have nothing to nide if she does yuou know what i mean lol

 

if she doesn't trust you, why do you trust her?

sounds like shes acting guilt... i bet shes a cheater and is trying to justify her actions by catching you doing it to her.

watch out with this one

 

i bet shes an alien trying to eat your brains and **** your earhole

 

ooooooooooh yea

 

I'd confront and change the password from a computer she has no access to. For all you know she could have one of those keystroke recording programs so I wouldn't do it from a computer she has access to.

I think its wrong of her, if she is actually going through your emails. That's your email account not some shared account. Your account=Your business and she should stay out of it. I'm in a similar situation where my gf always wants to go through my **** (phone,FB,email,computer) cause she has "trust issues" As soon as I found out she was going through my emails (my desktop at home has the tendency to keep me logged on for my email) I changed my settings to make sure I was always logged out. I've never done anything wrong for her to not trust me but she claims its "trust issues" from previous bf's.

I hate people going through my stuff, its the #1 thing that gets me to my boiling point the fastest.

 

Seriously ... Change your password ASAP!

If she still seems to have access to your email then it's time to cut strings with her and move on. She obviously doesn't trust you. So either there is a reason she doesn't trust you (not sure how long you have been together, so don't have any details to go on) or she just doesn't trust people in general.

 

test the #$%@ out of her. Make up some crazy cocaine smuggling email or about how you banged those two girls in the handicap stall at pf changs. i would have a crap ton of fun with this. then **** on her chest

 

so much win here!

 

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