Anyone on here gone through a divorce?
07-09-2014, 11:46 PM
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I' have no heart guys. It's so hard to come to terms with all this. I blame myself for being a lying cheating piece of ****... People sometime forget what they have because i cheat them out of it and steal their money. I always cheat or and use the money i steal for lots of drugs I'm sure there was things I could have changed about myself.. She says maybe in the future if were meant to be together id still be the lying scumbag i am, we'll never reunite... Hearing her say that has no effect on me because i have no soul. I guess I just need get over the fact she found out how worthless i am.. It's the hardest part though. Thinking of all the things I'm going to miss out on.. The things my pretend daughter is going to miss out on whilst i work another scam. Having to start over again.. Have my daughter see that.. Ahhhhh there just sooo many things running through my head.. I've never cried like this man because i am a huge piece of **** and know that God will punish me.. Never expected this either to be caught and have people find the same address i was when i was calisuby, man i am ****ing stupid..
07-10-2014, 03:59 PM
#35
There are ways to go through this the right way.. Don't think about money regardless.. Think about your daughters future and how it will impact things if you guys do divorce.. You need to open up to her and tell her you still love her and and want things to work.. Be a man about this situation. No sobbing
07-10-2014, 04:39 PM
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There are ways to go through this the right way.. Don't think about money regardless.. Think about your daughters future and how it will impact things if you guys do divorce.. You need to open up to her and tell her you still love her and and want things to work.. Be a man about this situation. No sobbing
Pretty sure no one cares anymore but good advice none the less.
07-10-2014, 05:25 PM
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Been through that I would get the book "It is called a break-up because it's broken"
I got involved with a support group also it is nice to talk to someone who has gone through it or is going through it.
Sorry to hear,
I got involved with a support group also it is nice to talk to someone who has gone through it or is going through it.
Sorry to hear,
07-11-2014, 02:55 PM
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I see it being worth every penny for the fact that your now legally not attached to the person and the only attachment is the kids. You can move on with your life. If they were a whole lot of drama you are now relieved of most of if not all of that drama. Those are the immediate things that come to mind.