I'd like to throw in my two cents.

Jeff is a stand up guy, make no mistake when I say this, but he's honest and he's also truthful. I've witnessed his faithfulness to his friends and his family. Out of a lot of people that I've met, I can honestly say that Jeff is a true friend. There have been a few times when people say they don't like Jeff and I tell them, "You don't really know him. He may come off a certain way, but in all honesty, this guy is a really good person." That's just from first impressions though and those that have hanged out with Jeff on more than one occassion all know that he's truly a great person to be around.

Also, as for the comment about The Duke Crew (damn, we should make that a shirt), we're probably a group of friends now that are pretty tightly knit (put aside the fact that I've been some what MIA at times), we are all close friends and not just car buddies.

 

You forget that you dont have to like your friends girl. You tried to get along but I dont think she likes you either. Sounds like she was being passive aggressive towards you. If you can stand to be around eachother then it should all work out ok. You see her like once a week? I think you can ignore her for the sake of the friendship.

 

loser :rotfl:

Ive been meaning to go, but just always short on time

 

Nicely put Charlie. I'd have to agree with everything you said.

 

yeah except for the fact that jeff is happily married to an awesome woman.

it is what it is...two folks that don't like each other.

 

I dont think he meant like her like "do you like me? circle one 'yes' 'no' 'maybe'"

 

werd...lets face it..not everyone gets along

At least he wasn't fake about it. Id rather someone tell me they dont like me than keep on acting as if they do

 

you mean like in kindergarten!? jeff, quit taking her nappy spot :rotfl:

so you called jeremy, manned up, apologized, and she still wouldnt get on the phone!? **** it. you attempted, she dropped the ball. its over. next time she shows up to the meet, dont talk to her. sounds like wasted energy if you did.

and tell Jeremy you love him in person. Jealousy is a hell of a drug :rotfl:

 

This is the kind of advice I was looking for. We are in complete agreement

I would expect this sort of honesty from anyone. I gues that's what makes me, well; me.

Once again, this makes me feel like I'm not so much of an ***. Especially coming from Charlie. I give you a hard time, I want you to know that it is all with good intent. You are one of the first people I met upon buying my car and joining this circus. I like to think of you as a work in progress. You know you can come to me and ask for advice and suggestions regardless of the answer. You know what you are going to get and that's cool with you. You take it like a man. Thanks.

Now I know, to some this sounds like a pity party for me... It kind of is. I question myself and me behavior because I do not know anyone like me. Who would say the things I do and act the way I act. If those who I call friends find this acceptable, I guess I'm on good shape.

 

well atleast she lets him hang out with the guys. I know a few married men arent allowed to hang out with their friends

 

honestly, you do come off as *****, online. But I think it is that you are just blunt. But I think its better to be honest and voice your opinion even if the audience will not like it.

I've met you a couple times, and you seem like a pretty nice guy, that is why I can't write you off completely.

Don't feel bad about making Katie cry, she probably deserved it. Sometimes females just like to argue, Jeremy probably just lets her win, or doesn't bite back like you do.

You are who you are man, it takes a lot to change something you or others don't like about your being. We are human, and are born with free will to say and do as we please.

I like to think there are 3 categories that make up personality. Nice, not nice, and all the grey in between. That is usually the area people will disagree on, but is also what makes us individuals.


bad people don't have friends either, so that probably means you're not too bad.


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Now get some ***** sissy boy! Emotions are for the weak!
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that is up to you man. me personally, I would give it some time, maybe a week, then approach her in person and let her know you are sorry for what ever reason. You need to get it off your chest because you feel guilty(girls that cry = guilty) or whatever.
She probably wont forgive you, so let her be the stuborn one if she wont acknowledge your apology.

 

shoot I come off like a ***** online............
















wait.....damn it I am a *****.

 

drinking + politics = someone cries or gets beat up.

 

Uhm, I already knew that. ;P