This probably would not make sense or sound stupid but what the hell Im bored....

So there's this girl in my group that Im really interested in, calls me up for info or updates for the group project. We start talking and soon it goes off the topic into our history and backgrounds. Then she asks me what I was doing tommorrow, which I replied, "nothing, what are you doing?"She said said she had to run some errands in the afternoon. Then I was like " You wanna work on the project after? She said she had to work at six. I was pretty embarrassed at that time, so I just quickly ended the conversation by saying that I'll see her during class..

I feel like I weirded her out or something? Is there anyway I can make this situation better or am I just over exaggerating it..

 

try working with her in a big group at first. specially if the group she feels safe in.

then slowly work your way into a smaller and smaller group until you two are the only ones left, say like at starbucks.

then make a move to make a "friendly" date with just the 2 of you...

 

ummm..beware the "friendly" date. Friendly date == FRIENDS zone.

FRIEND ZONE = bad.

Here's what I would do, man. Forget this project bs. If you guys started talking about backgrounds and stuff, she's at least sort of interested, otherwise she'd be like "so, uh, what's going on with the project? uh huh, uh huh, kthxbye". She wouldn't be asking about your family and stuff.

You sound pretty young, and I don't know if you're in hs or college, but either way, ask her out for this weekend. It sounds like you're old enough to drive, so see if she wants to go see a movie or get dinner or something. Not sure where in CA you live, but if you need help on a good place there are a bunch of people here with some great tastes and ideas.

And one last thing - don't be stressed about asking her. The biggest challenge to asking a girl out is realizing the WORST thing she can do is say no. And if she does, just be cool about it next time you see her - act like it never happened. Once you get that figured out, it's EASY to ask out teh wimmenz.

 

you control the situation. if you make it like you are weirded it out, then it will turn out that way. just act like what really happened, you asked her to work on the project and she said she had to work. no biggie.

when you get a chance, ask her how her errands went or something. if you really want to make it sound like you weren't trying to hit on her, say something in the group setting like... I had time whatever day in the afternoon and did this for the project. that way it makes it like you were planning on working on the project.

 

i agree with what sonic says

 

I say do what I usually do.... when you guys start talking to each other, it's ok to get personal....but...

Play Hard To Get!

Trust me, you'll know when she's ripe and ready!:banana:
















Look at me now, I've been playing hard to get..... and i'm still single!!! LOL

 

To avoid the fun zone completely...next time you're with her just whip out your **** and slap her with it. No friend zone for you!

 

LMAO

 

i agree with sonicsuby

just be straight about it. ask her out, she says no, so what, all it means is...
no, not right now. (or maybe no, never) so what.

the harders thing is to get over the far of rejection.

and if she says yes, then you can post how it whent down, and if she is hot, then post some pics.

:banana:

 

ummm - maybe she really had to go to work

 

Just know that she has already decided whether or not she's gonna go out with you or not so find out. Just don't mess it up by acting like a fool.

 

Let the sac drop and be a man about it.

 

You've seen too many movies and read too many trashy romance novels.