I was having an interesting topic with a female colleague over lunch today and we were talking about masturbation.

The gist of it was:

#1 men use visual aids to help arouse and stimulate themselves.

#2 women use their thoughts and desires with no visual aids to arouse and stimulate themselves.

So...anyone else agree or disagree?

 

so men watching porno and women imagine the porno in their head?

 

Well I think for men it doesn't really matter who the person is in the image or video, I believe its just the fact the activity is occuring.

Women on the otherhand (I feel) needs to know the person to create their fantasy in their mind.

 

well.. if you watch porno with 300+ lbs woman having sex i don't think you would be turned on?
i think men still have a visualize something they desire.

 

are you saying that a guy needs to look at something like **** to get himself to **********?

 

it might be different with every person. i can do both :3

 

Well it was a topic that was shared between myself and my co worker.


I just want to know of everyones insight on the topic.


Eddie, I understand what you mean about a 300lb woman in **** but if you think about it, there was a reason why the **** was made with a 300lb woman. The content isn't important, its the activity.


Steph, yes that's the point I'm trying to make. Is it possible for a man to whack it without a visual aid? Because based on my conversation with my co worker, women can stroke the violin without the music sheet.

 

+1

here here sister!

 

ya psych 101 watch this
http://www.heggle.com/item/4099193/G...t_Masturbating
NWS

 

lawls +1 for both

 

+12380982 on both

 

yea i can work with or without a script

 

this is an awesome thread.

 

only cuz im the first girl to admit to doing it =D at least in this thread