Geeky asian girl seeks Graham Coxon appreciator... - 31


Am interested in you who loves pubs, divey bars, books, post-punk sensibilities, Dazzle Ships, flea markets, gadgets, Scrabble, Bukowski, theater, architecture, David Cronenberg, Catherine Deneuve. Randy Gervais makes you laugh and yes, you are one of those who can watch tv without guilt. You're more city apartment than country house. You've got your own style whether it be a la combat boots or converse or creepers. Skinny ties and black make you comfortable. You may at times be mistaken for a hipster, but actually you'd prefer to distance yourself from them. You have a love for art and philosophy, but disdain for pseudo-intellectual yak. And if you think they're the same thing, you should stop reading.

You possess and appreciate classical male qualities but don't need to get into bar brawls to prove you're a man. But, if you had to defend yourself or someone else, you wouldn't hide in the loo. You don't need to be the center of attention - you have a life that involves and focuses on other people too. And because you value the written word, know the difference between their, they're and there and only use such wordsmithing as "u sound kewl, call me" to make a point, not as part of your permanent lexicon.

Chemistry is enigmatic, but here goes. Taller than me would be nice - I'm average height. Slim, average/athletic, proportionate builds. This is a real d*ck move, but I'm just not attracted to BBM...I wish it didn't matter, and it absolutely doesn't if you just want to be pals. Please don't be or look old enough to be my dad or one of his slightly younger buddies. Preferably not in your early 20s either in age or maturity. In your 30s is a good spread. I dunno, a little Anthony Bourdain, a dash of Jarvis Cocker wouldn't hurt, a smidge of kung fu hustle. (Gawd I sound like I've lost my mind.)

If you don't mind a cute, slim, pale gal who's creative and conversational, sassy not *****y, more mid-century modern than IKEA, more avant-garde and retro than hip or hippie - then do give a shout. If you are looking for that girl who wished Duckie actually got Andie in the end, then perhaps there's a chance this was not all for naught...

Cheers and thanks for reading.

(To the CL spoilers who have nothing to do but heckle everyone: if you find you must inform me that I'm full of crap, too old, too boring, etc., why waste your time? Go start a pyramid scheme or something. Geez.)

please.be.different. - 25

so out of the psychotic amount of people you meet in life, you really only need to connect with one *relationship-wise anyway*
you'd think in a city of a gazillion people, this would be simple. ****. its not.
because this is craigslist and i get to be as unrealistic as i want, i would like someone around my age (25-30ish), educated, passionate and kind. you must have a car (i dont care what kind, as long you can pick me up if im ****faced), you must be employed (and no, slanging does not count), and you must not be addicted to anything that will land your *** in jail (and yes. if you have enough pot). players/wife beaters/child molesters/general pervs, just stay the **** away. been there done that.
honestly, i am tired of the bad boys and the *******s. id really like a nice, dorky guy. they dont generally tend to go for me, but thats ok. this is craigslist, i can do what i want.
so what do you get. i'm really not your typical chick. granted, i enjoy things like shopping and getting my nails done but i would take beer, gambling/poker, or watching a good game over that any day. i am asian, i am not obese but im not anorexic, i have tatts/piercings, i am short and i smoke. the best thing about me is i am incredibly loyal and the worst thing about me is that i am always late.
so yeah. pretty much i just would like that *one* just right email...

SAF - 90045 - 33


I am a 33-year old Asian female.
I should say my personality can be a fire ******* filled with bunch of different personality. I can be sweet, *****y, caring, selfish, intelligent, absent minded, punctual, lazy, responsible, blaming, and etc…

I thought it best to be honest regarding my reservations about conventional thinking regards to a relationship. I am revising my thoughts often and admit when I am wrong clearly, but it’s more of that “when”. My thoughts can cause a twisted dwelling once in a while and do regret later.

Yes, I’d like to have a relationship. I can’t say it will be a long term or to the “love of my life”. I just prefer ones that transforms organically -- that being said many things need some push since I like to have a meaningful relationship. So, I will see what will happen after my posting.

It’s my second time on CL personal posting, and was in a relationship with a guy whom I met through here, so I don’t have much problem that meeting someone over the net. I am sure people still do have an etiquette and virtue of being a good human being no matter where we met.

I will just list things about me.

1. I am working full time in conventional 9-5 environment.
2. I live my own.
3. I am not that clean, but not in sense of calling city sanitizing people.
4. I do my dishes.
5. I consider myself a pretty fine cook.
6. I have a few good friends.
7. I had fun in my early 20’s and don’t regret it and don’t miss it either.
8. I love LA.
9. I am a proud member of KCRW and LACMA. (what a fake sophistication.)
10. By next year, I will continue to work my degree on PT and RT.
11. 5’3”, Black eyes, 125lbs, about shoulder length hair, and tanned complexion.
12. Hiker and half *** nature lover.
13. Like Obama, but leaning more toward to Elephant force.
14. I can be very naïve or dumb struck.


Whoever you are, I wish you’d be;

1. Honest
2. Compassionate/passionate
3. Know what you want but not being selfish to cover your *** for doing unreasonable acts.
4. Being exposed to and appreciate cultural diversity.
5. Good conversationalist but in an honest way. (I encountered couple guys who just wanted to show how smart they are, but to me, understanding and sharing genuine essence of conversation is more important whether we are going to have a heated argument due to conflicting ideas. I don’t expect anyone to be “magical” to know my every thought. However, I noticed guys expect that more without saying out loud.)
6. Fair and balanced
7. 30 to 45 of age. Taller than I am and healthy.
8. Finally, I don’t like someone who is a back stabber in a relationship. Last guy I dated was looking through personals while we were seeing each other. We were “dating”, but we both knew where we were in what stage of our relationship. Again, it's about honesty and trust. (why waste time unless for a casual relationship?)




**photo exchage only. your picture gets mine.
**please no myspace link "about you"

Asian Girl - 26


I'm just tired of being independent and I really want to get somone who is reliable and trust worthy. For me, at this age, it's too late to play with relationship, dates around in-n-out, suicide drama ..etc...

I just want to have someone who is looking for serious relationship. I'm shy but get me to shut up is the trick after I know you long enough. I don't go clubbing, I don't smoke (yes, I hate smokers), I drink occasionally. I might sound serious but I'm humorous. I enjoy cooking when I have time.

I don't discriminate, I'm just not into any religion. I don't care what religion you're but just don't try to talk me into it, that's the bottom line.

I am:
5'4"
115lbs
just right (no big ***** or big butt)
I'm not pretty, sexy, hot gal type, but I think I'm at least above average.