Teh "I'm single classifieds" thread
03-02-2007, 02:35 PM
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03-02-2007, 02:43 PM
#1023
Originally Posted by theheckwithyou
03-02-2007, 02:46 PM
#1026
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Originally Posted by LifePlaza
i forgot to update
I got this on wednesday
it hurt as we talked extensively on the phone..some of
it was depressing stuff, he made me depressed, he said
he didn't have money had to move in with his
mother...thinks about his ex that cheated on him 2000
every day, had his friend commit suicide..
losing someone to suicide hurts too bad, it was
personal stuff, it was not that it had to be the 25
yr.old or no one else, somehow later on i started to
want him to have feelings for me, maybe i was hurting
and wanted someone there to love me, that he had to
love me, the ques. is WHY DIDN'T HE? ESPECIALLY AFTER
HE KNEW SO MANY PERSONAL THINGS BOUT ME.
from his email he didn't "seem" as he was out to play
games, i hate men that r out for game/pleasure. in
the end i'm angry that i played, but a 25 yr. old
thats as pathetic as joe was, I GOT PLAYED AS I HAD
FEELINGS FOR HIM.
its time to move on, as much as all the typing,
eventually i will meet others and move on. he was
never b.f. material, just my feelings are hurt,
rejected by someone that had nothing to offer,
unmotivated, pathetic in thinking about his ex that
cheated in 2000, uncaring, selfish, childish.
when he said he had a motorcycle, i asked him to teach
me (as most guys have no problem) he said no, i
pressed him, he goes its 'like teaching a monkey how
to drive!"
did you hear that, thats what he said.
just my feelings are deeply hurt, seriously i need to
let a man treat me well, as you described that will
put me as his priority. getting fooled by boys gets
you mad then u hate all men for eternity..downward
cycle.
feelings are DEEPLY HURT. it was a mistake in choosing
to talk to him.
Ok what should I say guys?
I got this on wednesday
it hurt as we talked extensively on the phone..some of
it was depressing stuff, he made me depressed, he said
he didn't have money had to move in with his
mother...thinks about his ex that cheated on him 2000
every day, had his friend commit suicide..
losing someone to suicide hurts too bad, it was
personal stuff, it was not that it had to be the 25
yr.old or no one else, somehow later on i started to
want him to have feelings for me, maybe i was hurting
and wanted someone there to love me, that he had to
love me, the ques. is WHY DIDN'T HE? ESPECIALLY AFTER
HE KNEW SO MANY PERSONAL THINGS BOUT ME.
from his email he didn't "seem" as he was out to play
games, i hate men that r out for game/pleasure. in
the end i'm angry that i played, but a 25 yr. old
thats as pathetic as joe was, I GOT PLAYED AS I HAD
FEELINGS FOR HIM.
its time to move on, as much as all the typing,
eventually i will meet others and move on. he was
never b.f. material, just my feelings are hurt,
rejected by someone that had nothing to offer,
unmotivated, pathetic in thinking about his ex that
cheated in 2000, uncaring, selfish, childish.
when he said he had a motorcycle, i asked him to teach
me (as most guys have no problem) he said no, i
pressed him, he goes its 'like teaching a monkey how
to drive!"
did you hear that, thats what he said.
just my feelings are deeply hurt, seriously i need to
let a man treat me well, as you described that will
put me as his priority. getting fooled by boys gets
you mad then u hate all men for eternity..downward
cycle.
feelings are DEEPLY HURT. it was a mistake in choosing
to talk to him.
Ok what should I say guys?
ok here's my response, sending in 15 mins so if I need changes say it now!
Negativity is contagious and I think he was filled with so much pain and anger, he wanted to spread it to others so he will feel better about himself by dragging you down with him. I feel you're a very noble person for hearing him out which makes you a good listener. It's too bad he was too blind to see you since he is too self absorbed with his personal issues. Missed opportunity? Maybe missed connection is what I would call it on his end. If he were smart, he would take notice of the attention and caring you gave him.
I can't really say if he played you, what I can say is he had no direction of where to take you though. I think his life is so dis-organized, he can't make anything of it since he's dwelling in the past, not looking toward the future. Its like that saying, "How can you take care of anyone when you can't take care of yourself." I feel that phrase associates to him. I feel bad that you ended up being in a very one sided relationship with him and I hope the next man will make up for him because we are all not that bad.
You know its funny you mentioned learning how to ride a motorcycle, a couple of my friends and myself are going for a license test pretty soon. When I get my bike, and if we ever take this "relationship (as in friendship =) ) further, I help teach you how to ride.
03-02-2007, 02:50 PM
#1027
Originally Posted by LifePlaza
ok here's my response, sending in 15 mins so if I need changes say it now!
Negativity is contagious and I think he was filled with so much pain and anger, he wanted to spread it to others so he will feel better about himself by dragging you down with him. I feel you're a very noble person for hearing him out which makes you a good listener. It's too bad he was too blind to see you since he is too self absorbed with his personal issues. Missed opportunity? Maybe missed connection is what I would call it on his end. If he were smart, he would take notice of the attention and caring you gave him.
I can't really say if he played you, what I can say is he had no direction of where to take you though. I think his life is so dis-organized, he can't make anything of it since he's dwelling in the past, not looking toward the future. Its like that saying, "How can you take care of anyone when you can't take care of yourself." I feel that phrase associates to him. I feel bad that you ended up being in a very one sided relationship with him and I hope the next man will make up for him because we are all not that bad.
You know its funny you mentioned learning how to ride a motorcycle, a couple of my friends and myself are going for a license test pretty soon. When I get my bike, and if we ever take this "relationship (as in friendship =) ) further, I help teach you how to ride.
Negativity is contagious and I think he was filled with so much pain and anger, he wanted to spread it to others so he will feel better about himself by dragging you down with him. I feel you're a very noble person for hearing him out which makes you a good listener. It's too bad he was too blind to see you since he is too self absorbed with his personal issues. Missed opportunity? Maybe missed connection is what I would call it on his end. If he were smart, he would take notice of the attention and caring you gave him.
I can't really say if he played you, what I can say is he had no direction of where to take you though. I think his life is so dis-organized, he can't make anything of it since he's dwelling in the past, not looking toward the future. Its like that saying, "How can you take care of anyone when you can't take care of yourself." I feel that phrase associates to him. I feel bad that you ended up being in a very one sided relationship with him and I hope the next man will make up for him because we are all not that bad.
You know its funny you mentioned learning how to ride a motorcycle, a couple of my friends and myself are going for a license test pretty soon. When I get my bike, and if we ever take this "relationship (as in friendship =) ) further, I help teach you how to ride.
that looks good to me, what does everybody else think?
03-02-2007, 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted by LifePlaza
ok here's my response, sending in 15 mins so if I need changes say it now!
Negativity is contagious and I think he was filled with so much pain and anger, he wanted to spread it to others so he will feel better about himself by dragging you down with him. I feel you're a very noble person for hearing him out which makes you a good listener. It's too bad he was too blind to see you since he is too self absorbed with his personal issues. Missed opportunity? Maybe missed connection is what I would call it on his end. If he were smart, he would take notice of the attention and caring you gave him.
I can't really say if he played you, what I can say is he had no direction of where to take you though. I think his life is so dis-organized, he can't make anything of it since he's dwelling in the past, not looking toward the future. Its like that saying, "How can you take care of anyone when you can't take care of yourself." I feel that phrase associates to him. I feel bad that you ended up being in a very one sided relationship with him and I hope the next man will make up for him because we are all not that bad.
You know its funny you mentioned learning how to ride a motorcycle, a couple of my friends and myself are going for a license test pretty soon. When I get my bike, and if we ever take this "relationship (as in friendship =) ) further, I help teach you how to ride.
Negativity is contagious and I think he was filled with so much pain and anger, he wanted to spread it to others so he will feel better about himself by dragging you down with him. I feel you're a very noble person for hearing him out which makes you a good listener. It's too bad he was too blind to see you since he is too self absorbed with his personal issues. Missed opportunity? Maybe missed connection is what I would call it on his end. If he were smart, he would take notice of the attention and caring you gave him.
I can't really say if he played you, what I can say is he had no direction of where to take you though. I think his life is so dis-organized, he can't make anything of it since he's dwelling in the past, not looking toward the future. Its like that saying, "How can you take care of anyone when you can't take care of yourself." I feel that phrase associates to him. I feel bad that you ended up being in a very one sided relationship with him and I hope the next man will make up for him because we are all not that bad.
You know its funny you mentioned learning how to ride a motorcycle, a couple of my friends and myself are going for a license test pretty soon. When I get my bike, and if we ever take this "relationship (as in friendship =) ) further, I help teach you how to ride.
especially the last paragraph has a unique twist to it.