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got it... thanks for posting it. i'm making arrangements to attend.

since he's going to be cremated (according to the thread) how are those types of funeral services? I've never attended one of those? damn i won't be able to bring him anything in his casket

 

When my grandfather passed away a few years ago, we had a regular service, and the cremation happened afterwards off site. Not really a service that goes along with the service. Yeah.

 

i will be there

what do you were to a funeral? i never been to one. this is the first person i knew real good to pass away so if you can help me by letting me know what is ok to wear and whats not that will be helpfull

 

The cremation services that I have been to are the same as casket services except there is an urn instead of a casket.
If the ashes are not being spread sometimes the family will reserve a vault that has enough room for the urn and any memorabilia that is left by friends and family.
I think this something that needs to be answered by someone planning the services.

 

well i wont be able to make it to boobies funeral, but ill still be in california! i send all my condolances to his family and friends! if a bobby rip sticker is gona be made i would like to purchase it or whatever!!! this is nuts!! he will be missed

cOry

 

So its this coming Saturday!! I will be attending..Anybody wanna meet up before heading out to his services??

 

i'll be attending but it'll be right after work at 4:30pm since this is at 5:00pm.

if anyone going down fashionably late and wants to meet up with me i can meet you somewhere

 

Im still completely in shock about this whole thing, but I am going to try my damnedest to be there.

 

Shaggy,
Traditional attire is all black or as dark as possible. I've been to a few unfortunately.
My little brother's still haunts me. He was better looking, had a wife and baby, and I always felt it should have been me. Life is strange. I talked to my brother the night he died. We were going to play raquetball the next day. His wife showed up at my friend's door (where I was) the next morning and told me he was dead. I really didn't comprehend it or break down until I saw the coffin. I had to tell my mother over the phone. The pain in her voice was unbearable. Parents shouldn't outlive their children. The pain Bobby's parents are feeling I can't begin to comprehend. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
I always tell my kids to cherish every moment, as you don't know when someone will be taken away. I also tell them they'll never know what losing someone is like until it happens to them. I knew Bobby. We were friends. We didn't hang out together, except for at the shop. He was still a friend. It makes you aware of just how vulnerable you are.
Sorry, but I don't have anything really valuable to say. I don't know what happened, just that one of our friends is gone. Home is where the heart is, and my heart is with his family and you guys right now in this time of sorrow. Please express my whole-hearted condolescences to his family.

San

 

my wife checked his obituary posting and for the funeral it lists ALOHA ATTIRE and donations to toys for tots.

 

here you go

 

bump today is the sad day

i know that the bikers and some other car guy that knew bobby are going to be meeting up today before the funeral. i would like the subies to be there since i would like to make a plaque for his family with a group photo of everone that can make it that knew bobby so i can put it on the plaque. so when we find out where were meeting at (ward or kaka'ako) i will let you know

 

i won't be off until 430 and going straight down to the funeral area. le tme know ****

 

were meeting at kaka'ako at 3pm rolling out at 4pm.