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First of all, you only started asking me today to switch back. You even posted on I-club before you sent me a text message. I received a text message at about 11AM about this, you started this thread at 10:53AM. I think youre just trying to get attention and start unnecessary drama. Second of all, why would I possibly want to keep your stock headlights when mine are cleared out? I dont even have the car right now, its at a body shop getting fixed up because I chipped my bumper reversing into a pillar.
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First of all, you only started asking me today to switch back. You even posted on I-club before you sent me a text message. I received a text message at about 11AM about this, you started this thread at 10:53AM. I think youre just trying to get attention and start unnecessary drama. Second of all, why would I possibly want to keep your stock headlights when mine are cleared out? I dont even have the car right now, its at a body shop getting fixed up because I chipped my bumper reversing into a pillar.
I don't want to bash anyone or take any sides since I don't know the real story between you two but when you borrow somebody's stuff, take the initiative to return it. I don't care if it's out of your way to return those headlights, the person who lend those headlights to you went out of their way to help you out. I find it a bit of disrespect when someone helps another out by letting someone borrow something and those things never gets returned.
The fact of the matter is, you still haven't stated that you're going to return her those headlights. If you have done so through private means of communication then bravo. It doesn't matter if yours are cleared out or not. As I read it, you weren't doing her a favor, she was doing you a favor so you can pass recon.
You're joining the military where being accountable is very important.
The US Army's 23 traits of character are:
Bearing
Confidence
Courage
Integrity
Decisiveness
Justice
Endurance
Tact
Initiative
Coolness
Maturity
Improvement
Will
Assertiveness
Candor
Sense of humor
Competence
Commitment
Creativity
Self-discipline
Humility
Flexibility
Empathy/Compassion
Hope you both solve this situation in the most friendliest of ways.
John
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Wrong buddy...I've asked you a number of times for them back. Don't have date & timestamps for all those times but I asked you about them the last time I saw you...do you not remember our conversation? I also said to PM someone about safety for your car....and you wanted ME to pm him for YOU. Also, do I have to screenshot the aim window I have open with you on my sidekick? 952 a.m. I asked if we could trade headlights back, you signed off at 1030 a.m., signed back on at 140 pm, at 204 pm I asked if you were going to continue to ignore me. In the past few weeks I've IM'd and texted you several times...yes, I did just ask what day are you tuning cause I didn't want to be like "are you gonna give me my lights back or not". You continued to ignore me-what was I suppose to think. Fact of the matter is I let you borrow something. Im not the one who should have to hunt you down to get them back. I read that your gonna join the military...if you know your leaving you should take care of unfinished business and return what isn't yours. And no, I wasn't trying to get attention or cause drama...if I was I would of mentioned what previously happened but we squahed that already...took you a while to get the touch up paint but you did. You still haven't IM/text/PM me to tell me when you want to switch back. Im not the jackass here, you know I just wanted to help you and look what happened.
P.S. I'm joining the US Navy and the core values are Honor, Courage and Commitment.
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*Tiff enters*
Mmmm I don't really think it's my place to
in this thread.. but I'm here? 
Hopefully you two get all of this worked out as soon as he gets his car back from the shop. And hopefully as soon as it -is- worked out, there won't be any lingering hard feelings?
Mmmm I don't really think it's my place to
in this thread.. but I'm here? Hopefully you two get all of this worked out as soon as he gets his car back from the shop. And hopefully as soon as it -is- worked out, there won't be any lingering hard feelings?
