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Old Jan 3, 2013 | 11:57 AM
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Child support claim rankles sperm donor to lesbian couple - Yahoo! News

Child support claim rankles sperm donor to lesbian couple
By Kevin Murphy | Reuters


KANSAS CITY, Kansas (Reuters) - A Kansas man who donated sperm to a lesbian couple so they could have a child said on Wednesday he is shocked the state is now trying to make him pay child support.
William Marotta, 46, donated sperm to Jennifer Schreiner and Angela Bauer under a written agreement that he would not be considered the father of the child nor liable for child support. A daughter, now 3, was born to Schreiner.
But in October, the state of Kansas filed a petition seeking to have Marotta declared the father of the child and financially responsible for her after the couple encountered money difficulties.
Marotta will ask the court in a hearing January 8 to dismiss the claim, which centers on a state law that the sperm must be donated through a licensed physician in order for the father to be free of any later financial obligations. Marotta gave a container of semen to the couple, who found him on Craigslist, instead of donating through a doctor or clinic.

The case is seen as having repercussions for other sperm donors. Sperm banks routinely provide sperm to people who want to conceive a child on the understanding that the donors are not responsible for the children.
Kansas is seeking child support from Marotta, including about $6,000 in medical expenses related to the child's birth, according to its petition.
"This was totally unexpected," Marotta said in a phone interview. "The very first thing that went through my mind was that no good deed goes unpunished."
The case has attracted national attention. Shannon Minter, legal director for the National Center for Lesbian Rights, said Wednesday "it is unfortunate and unfair" that Kansas is seeking money from a sperm donor.
"It certainly might have a negative effect on other men's willingness to help couples who need a donor, which would be harmful to everyone," Minter said.
"I also think it undermines everyone's respect for the law when you see it operate so arbitrarily."
Kansas officials are required under the law to determine the father of a child when someone seeks state benefits, said Angela de Rocha, spokeswoman for the Department for Children and Families. The couple was compelled to provide that information, which led to investigation of the sperm donation.
Marotta should be declared the father and subject to financial claims because he donated the sperm directly to the women and not through a physician, as required by Kansas law, the state's petition states.
Marotta said he's had virtually no contact with the child, but that he and Schreiner have remained cordial. He said she was pressured by the state to provide his name as the sperm donor.
"To me, ethics need to override rules," he said.
Lawyers for Marotta argue that he had no parental rights because of his agreement with the couple and cannot be held financially responsible.
They cite a 2007 case in which the Kansas Supreme Court ruled against a sperm donor seeking parental rights because he did not have any such agreement with the mother, lawyers for Marotta said.
"So now, we are flipping the argument around," Marotta attorney Ben Swinnen said Wednesday.
If the father had no legal parental rights in the 2007 case, Marotta should be declared to have no parental obligations in the current case, Swinnen said.
Marotta, a race car mechanic, responded to an ad on Craigslist from someone offering to pay $50 for sperm donations, but he made the donation for free. Marotta said he and his wife have no children of their own but have fostered a daughter. Marotta said he was simply trying to help a couple wanting a child.
Old Jan 3, 2013 | 11:59 AM
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knock woman up..pay child support
Old Jan 3, 2013 | 12:01 PM
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CL for a sperm donor...... HAHA.
Old Jan 3, 2013 | 12:28 PM
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knock woman up..pay child support
More like: give cup of spooge to help lesbian couple have baby as per their wishes, state of Kansas holds dude responsible for child support.
Old Jan 3, 2013 | 12:31 PM
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So did the couple go on welfare or something and the state is holding the donor responsible anyway?
Old Jan 3, 2013 | 12:39 PM
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That's about as retarded a thing I have ever read. You're supposed to be protected against that. In the state of california you sign paperwork that says so.

If he has a written agreement it should uphold in court and this will turn out to be a huge waste of kansas tax payer money.

If the women filed the suit then I would counter sue them and the state for time lost and stress. I would also file a suit demanding equal custody and parental rights to the child.

That alone would cause them and the state to drop the retarded case.
Old Jan 3, 2013 | 12:40 PM
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watch where you leave your "used" kleenexes, boys... or you may get a call from the state welfare dept.
Old Jan 3, 2013 | 12:49 PM
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it should be the responsibility of the mothers, the ones who filed for government aid in the first place, to stop this litigation process. they're broke asses put this dude in the situation, they should stand up themselves for the clear moral highground.


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Old Jan 3, 2013 | 02:11 PM
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it should be the responsibility of the mothers, the ones who filed for government aid in the first place, to stop this litigation process. they're broke asses put this dude in the situation, they should stand up themselves for the clear moral highground.

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They should, but considering the fact that they are broke, they don't have that kind of cash. Not to mention the fact that they are getting a potential cash cow to cover their daily expenses

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plenty of fail in this story... Bottom line is homeboy did not do his homework and is prolly gonna fry for this. As far as the state is concerned, he blew baby-batter in her and she pooped out a kid of his. In reality, a turkey baster is the kids daddy.

And the women are idiots, too. Who just takes jizz off the street/CL, and shoots it up their wahoo? The stuff does not last forever at room temp... And no Doc in the world would use unknown c-men in a IVF, etc. procedure.
Old Jan 4, 2013 | 06:01 AM
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Originally Posted by jic
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Marotta gave a container of semen to the couple, who found him on Craigslist, instead of donating through a doctor or clinic.

do you even understand how babies are made?
Old Jan 4, 2013 | 06:47 PM
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Old Jan 4, 2013 | 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted by irrational x

do you even understand how babies are made?
Well in this case a turkey baster and a jar... Not quite the conventional method
Old Jan 4, 2013 | 08:09 PM
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Lesbians.. there always thinking there entitled to things.
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