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Old Sep 13, 2004 | 11:37 PM
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OT: need advice, pretty down right now

Well, I have some crazy dilemma. hoping to get all you nice iclubbers to help me out.

Well, i used to date a Chinese girl in high school, all 4 years, and just today i was searching through friendster.com, hope u guys know wut it is. anyways well for like some far fetch connection i found her. and she goes to UCLA, which i am tranfsering to soon. and we broke up kinda crazy, lets just say last time i saw her was when i broke an umbrella over her face . yeah so well the whole story goes, i got her pregnant and she had a miscarriage, which in many aspects i thank god , and i still think about her alot, oh by the way i am 21 so i havent seen her in a while. well she seems to be doing well, joining a soririty and everything. but how do u think things will go if i run into on campus? i think she wants to kill me still so i dunno. well if u guys need more details just holla.


thanks for listening or reading or wutever


brandon

ps i know most of you would say go for a drive, but lets not give that advice here

kinda funny i turn to iclub like its my family, living alone sucks
Old Sep 13, 2004 | 11:42 PM
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Old Sep 13, 2004 | 11:52 PM
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whoa, whoa... back up. You broke an umbrella on her face? !??!?


In regards to the situation. UCLA is a big friggin school... and chances are that you wont run into her. If you do however run into her, your best bet is to ignore her. Seriously.
Old Sep 13, 2004 | 11:53 PM
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I'll say somethin',

first of all, I want to know what on earth did she do to deserve you breaking an umbrella on her face? IMHO that sounds kinda abusive to me....just my opinion, but if I were in your position, I probably wouldnt try to contact her, because of all that.... but if you were to randomly run into her on campus, and I mean really randomly, not like if you specifically planned your route so you could run into her (thats borderline stalker status), then first of all see if she even recognizes you, if she does, and doesnt seem bitter anymore, then talk to her and try to make friends again, no pressure, just be yourself and see where it goes from there. But if you sense that she still wants to hang you by your b@||$, and drop you bare a$$ed onto a cactus, then I would leave her alone, it wont workout no matter how hard you try.

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Old Sep 14, 2004 | 12:06 AM
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no matter how crazy the ***** was if you did anything like that **** infront of me you would be talking via a computer for the rest of your life. I have had my fair share of psycho *****es but neve once have i been anywhere near the ***** you were when you struck a women.

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Old Sep 14, 2004 | 12:13 AM
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well, she brought some guy to me to have him "shoot me" back in high school. and it was like pure instinct, and i had so much adrenaline, cause of that guy try to fight me, and then she steps in my face punches me and out of just pure cat like reflexes i smacked acorss her face with my umbrella which i still have by the way. lol i am not a abuser, just reaction. but the situation is more complicated then that. but i just have a feeling imma run into her, i am not gonna stalk her, i think she is crazy i am just worried when or if it does happen i have no clue wut to do.
Old Sep 14, 2004 | 12:14 AM
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yes yes to all my friends i am known as the umbrella man, omg i better not go to hammy meets imma be known as the umbrella man to all you guys now
Old Sep 14, 2004 | 12:15 AM
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Stay away from her, like far away. If you see her, turn around and go the other way. It's not worth it.
Old Sep 14, 2004 | 12:16 AM
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thanks guys its good to her other say stuff. being stuck at home sucks!
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i doubt you will run into her in school.
but, if you do run into her, you'll just have to confront her if she confronts you. dont hide, don't prolong it.
if it happens, it happens.
blah, i dont klnow
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Originally Posted by dorifto88
i doubt you will run into her in school.
but, if you do run into her, you'll just have to confront her if she confronts you. dont hide, don't prolong it.
if it happens, it happens.
blah, i dont klnow
women are so crazy, sorry i club ladies... u know how we started going out she stalked me, would call my house and hang up and would follow me.
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Wow that's pretty crazy. Like everybody else has said stay far away. She's in a sorority, so it wouldn't take much to have her get some more guys to whoop you. Maybe even those vietnamese gangsta's doo!

I do not condone you hitting her, no matter how crazy she is.
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should i carry an umbrella around just in case she attacks me again
Old Sep 14, 2004 | 12:27 AM
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**** her in the *** nice and hard and then nut in her nose and kick her in the shins.

that will do it proper..

and ps i would hope the story is more complicated.. haha
Old Sep 14, 2004 | 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted by nic3krnnamja83
should i carry an umbrella around just in case she attacks me again

No... carry a pistol with you... just in case she tries to get some guy to "shoot" you again. Make sure its an airsoft pistol... cuz then you can shoot them in the face and run. lol.

They'll be hurting for days.



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