I'm not really sure how to cope with this, recently my Mom past away on Christmas day she gave me her necklace that she wore day after day. i spent the last few days in the hospital with here before i had to make a difficult decision my mother was brain dead and doctors were unable to do anything. as i sat there holding her hand i was thinking was this my fault, how could i have prevented this from happing, why me? i dint have a chance to tell her goodbye.... everything happen so suddenly i had to pick my moms casket ( it wasn't easy) she was in a lot of pain the last few weeks now shes pain free, i can't let go........

 

it wasn't your fault, we were born to replace our parents. you'll need time to heal, just keep the good memories in the front of your mind. she'll always be with you.

 

sorry for your loss, hang in there man

 

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my daughter is asking for her abuela (grandmother) not sure how to tell her she loved her and so did my mother

 

Dude, we are all sorry for your loss. if you need anything give us a call. you already have my number

 

Its not your fault and everyone has a time, some sooner and more untimely than others. Think of the good times and the things you got to do with her, also be glad she is no longer in pain.

Time heals all wounds, you'll pull through it.

 

Just like you said, "in the last few weeks she went through alot of pain."

Now she is pain free.

Just remember the good moments you had with her and dont dwell on the fact that shes gone. Shes in a better place... pain free.

Just remember the good moments and smile about the life you had together

 

My condolences.
Sorry to hear of your tragic loss.

 

now... just remember the first 3 letters of funeral.

i know she wants you to go on... worse is if parents have to bury their children.

good luck.

 

Im so sorry for you loss, I got chills reading your post. I hope the best for you man, just gotta stay strong and time will heal.

 

She fulfilled her purpose brotha. I think our purpose is to be good enough As a person that we be missed when we are gone. Proof in point.... Your post.
Happy new year buddy.
-J

 

i'm sorry to hear about this. Its always sad to see things like this happening around the holidays.

 

I am sorry for your loss.

 

thank you all..i'm not sure if i'll be the same person i was b4 she past. take care all, family first happy new year to all......