Randomness and heinous *****es...
Randomness and heinous *****es...
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randomness eh? here we go.....
so a few nights ago, i get a call from an ex girlfriend. we dated when i was 14, and yes, we were in love and everything. we dated for a year, had a great relationship, had no problems whatsoever....
that is, until August of 1995. when she informed me of the fact taht she was moving back to Japan. her father worked for Sony Of Japan, and was transferred out here for a year. ****ty things happen in life, and this was one of them.
We continued to talk for the last 11 years, and everything went great. i had a long distance pen pal. everything went smooth. we sent each other gifts, talked on the phone and through email, it was classic. couldnt ask for more from a girl that was halfway around the world.
Then comes the bombshell....
She tells me that she went to a party. not a big deal, im not trying to run her life, she lives a half world away. do whatever you want. then, she tells me that she slept with a guy and got pregnant. again, not a big deal. these things happen. then, she proceeds to ask me if she can come back to the US and live with me, and raise the child. thats when i have to raise the WTF flag. i understand the fact that her parents are extremely pissed about the fact that shes pregnant outside of wedlock. i understand the fact that the guy wants no part of it, and she has to raise the child. now, what i dont understand is the fact that she tells me this, 4 months after the shild is born, and after she named the child AFTER ME!!! not a traditional Japanese name, after a person who would be a complete gaijin in her culture, a guy who can barely speak enough Japanese to order his own dinner and thank the waitress with respect. then the fact that she wants to uproot herself ( the third time in her life ) and come to the US, to live with me, and raise a child under my roof that isnt mine. In an extreme case, i may have not even minded this, but because of my current situation, i CANNOT afford to have a child thats not even mine here, helping an ex-girlfriend from 11 years ago raise her child. So when i explained to her that this would be impossible right now, she completely flips the script. Telling me that the year we spent together i never cared about her, i never loved her, and all of it was a lie from my part. Thats where i got pissed off, and thats why im in the current mood im in. I may have been only 14, but this girl was my first true love, and for her to say this **** completely tore a hole in me. Im distraught and confused, and second guessing everything. Because of her, i hate women. i felt dejected, jaded, unsure of a lot of things. so i called my sister Monika, and she understood what im going through, told me my feelings are not unjustified........
now tell me that isnt phucked up.... i hate *****es....
so a few nights ago, i get a call from an ex girlfriend. we dated when i was 14, and yes, we were in love and everything. we dated for a year, had a great relationship, had no problems whatsoever....
that is, until August of 1995. when she informed me of the fact taht she was moving back to Japan. her father worked for Sony Of Japan, and was transferred out here for a year. ****ty things happen in life, and this was one of them.
We continued to talk for the last 11 years, and everything went great. i had a long distance pen pal. everything went smooth. we sent each other gifts, talked on the phone and through email, it was classic. couldnt ask for more from a girl that was halfway around the world.
Then comes the bombshell....
She tells me that she went to a party. not a big deal, im not trying to run her life, she lives a half world away. do whatever you want. then, she tells me that she slept with a guy and got pregnant. again, not a big deal. these things happen. then, she proceeds to ask me if she can come back to the US and live with me, and raise the child. thats when i have to raise the WTF flag. i understand the fact that her parents are extremely pissed about the fact that shes pregnant outside of wedlock. i understand the fact that the guy wants no part of it, and she has to raise the child. now, what i dont understand is the fact that she tells me this, 4 months after the shild is born, and after she named the child AFTER ME!!! not a traditional Japanese name, after a person who would be a complete gaijin in her culture, a guy who can barely speak enough Japanese to order his own dinner and thank the waitress with respect. then the fact that she wants to uproot herself ( the third time in her life ) and come to the US, to live with me, and raise a child under my roof that isnt mine. In an extreme case, i may have not even minded this, but because of my current situation, i CANNOT afford to have a child thats not even mine here, helping an ex-girlfriend from 11 years ago raise her child. So when i explained to her that this would be impossible right now, she completely flips the script. Telling me that the year we spent together i never cared about her, i never loved her, and all of it was a lie from my part. Thats where i got pissed off, and thats why im in the current mood im in. I may have been only 14, but this girl was my first true love, and for her to say this **** completely tore a hole in me. Im distraught and confused, and second guessing everything. Because of her, i hate women. i felt dejected, jaded, unsure of a lot of things. so i called my sister Monika, and she understood what im going through, told me my feelings are not unjustified........
now tell me that isnt phucked up.... i hate *****es....
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Originally Posted by rau
randomness eh? here we go.....
so a few nights ago, i get a call from an ex girlfriend. we dated when i was 14, and yes, we were in love and everything. we dated for a year, had a great relationship, had no problems whatsoever....
that is, until August of 1995. when she informed me of the fact taht she was moving back to Japan. her father worked for Sony Of Japan, and was transferred out here for a year. ****ty things happen in life, and this was one of them.
We continued to talk for the last 11 years, and everything went great. i had a long distance pen pal. everything went smooth. we sent each other gifts, talked on the phone and through email, it was classic. couldnt ask for more from a girl that was halfway around the world.
Then comes the bombshell....
She tells me that she went to a party. not a big deal, im not trying to run her life, she lives a half world away. do whatever you want. then, she tells me that she slept with a guy and got pregnant. again, not a big deal. these things happen. then, she proceeds to ask me if she can come back to the US and live with me, and raise the child. thats when i have to raise the WTF flag. i understand the fact that her parents are extremely pissed about the fact that shes pregnant outside of wedlock. i understand the fact that the guy wants no part of it, and she has to raise the child. now, what i dont understand is the fact that she tells me this, 4 months after the shild is born, and after she named the child AFTER ME!!! not a traditional Japanese name, after a person who would be a complete gaijin in her culture, a guy who can barely speak enough Japanese to order his own dinner and thank the waitress with respect. then the fact that she wants to uproot herself ( the third time in her life ) and come to the US, to live with me, and raise a child under my roof that isnt mine. In an extreme case, i may have not even minded this, but because of my current situation, i CANNOT afford to have a child thats not even mine here, helping an ex-girlfriend from 11 years ago raise her child. So when i explained to her that this would be impossible right now, she completely flips the script. Telling me that the year we spent together i never cared about her, i never loved her, and all of it was a lie from my part. Thats where i got pissed off, and thats why im in the current mood im in. I may have been only 14, but this girl was my first true love, and for her to say this **** completely tore a hole in me. Im distraught and confused, and second guessing everything. Because of her, i hate women. i felt dejected, jaded, unsure of a lot of things. so i called my sister Monika, and she understood what im going through, told me my feelings are not unjustified........
now tell me that isnt phucked up.... i hate *****es....
so a few nights ago, i get a call from an ex girlfriend. we dated when i was 14, and yes, we were in love and everything. we dated for a year, had a great relationship, had no problems whatsoever....
that is, until August of 1995. when she informed me of the fact taht she was moving back to Japan. her father worked for Sony Of Japan, and was transferred out here for a year. ****ty things happen in life, and this was one of them.
We continued to talk for the last 11 years, and everything went great. i had a long distance pen pal. everything went smooth. we sent each other gifts, talked on the phone and through email, it was classic. couldnt ask for more from a girl that was halfway around the world.
Then comes the bombshell....
She tells me that she went to a party. not a big deal, im not trying to run her life, she lives a half world away. do whatever you want. then, she tells me that she slept with a guy and got pregnant. again, not a big deal. these things happen. then, she proceeds to ask me if she can come back to the US and live with me, and raise the child. thats when i have to raise the WTF flag. i understand the fact that her parents are extremely pissed about the fact that shes pregnant outside of wedlock. i understand the fact that the guy wants no part of it, and she has to raise the child. now, what i dont understand is the fact that she tells me this, 4 months after the shild is born, and after she named the child AFTER ME!!! not a traditional Japanese name, after a person who would be a complete gaijin in her culture, a guy who can barely speak enough Japanese to order his own dinner and thank the waitress with respect. then the fact that she wants to uproot herself ( the third time in her life ) and come to the US, to live with me, and raise a child under my roof that isnt mine. In an extreme case, i may have not even minded this, but because of my current situation, i CANNOT afford to have a child thats not even mine here, helping an ex-girlfriend from 11 years ago raise her child. So when i explained to her that this would be impossible right now, she completely flips the script. Telling me that the year we spent together i never cared about her, i never loved her, and all of it was a lie from my part. Thats where i got pissed off, and thats why im in the current mood im in. I may have been only 14, but this girl was my first true love, and for her to say this **** completely tore a hole in me. Im distraught and confused, and second guessing everything. Because of her, i hate women. i felt dejected, jaded, unsure of a lot of things. so i called my sister Monika, and she understood what im going through, told me my feelings are not unjustified........
now tell me that isnt phucked up.... i hate *****es....
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Originally Posted by Onizuka
LOL, I just don't like the name, you really want a stupid nickname? I could give you several that I'm sure you wouldn't like.
Touche, they only keep you around because you're eye candy. They wouldn't really care if you left either.
Touche, they only keep you around because you're eye candy. They wouldn't really care if you left either.
And Zoeb would cry if I left.
Chicks dig me. April Fool's!
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Interesting. That's kind of immature on her part. I guess it is okay to ask for help, but her actually expecting you to say yes... that's really weird. I am no genius when it comes to women, but yeah. The way I see it, she is expecting you to help fix her mistake. Helping is one thing, but having someone else do save her a** is totally different.
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Originally Posted by Staar
the world is such a small place. don't you guys think you should all get along or ignore eachother already?!
i still don't understand why people continue to pick on Charlie. he's been nothing but a great friend to most people on here.
that's my yearly check-in. see u guys again in a year.
-V
i still don't understand why people continue to pick on Charlie. he's been nothing but a great friend to most people on here.
that's my yearly check-in. see u guys again in a year.
-V
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Ok, so I killed a good 2 hours or whatever in that sighting thread... w00t for being bored at work and having nothing to do.
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Originally Posted by WRXBABY
Ok, so I killed a good 2 hours or whatever in that sighting thread... w00t for being bored at work and having nothing to do.
