What elements/stuffs are girls looking for or want from guys?
09-10-2006, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Onizuka
Dude, I'll tell you the truth, if you're a fat boy like me, you're stuck in friendzone 99.9% of the time. Trust me on this one. The only way past it: get fit. Me = too lazy. So I'm scr00d.
lol...hit the gym man. As a former fat man myself, I can tell you it feels great to get in shape and get a lot of attention from the ladies
09-10-2006, 04:10 PM
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In general ladies want someone confident and passionate. That can mean a lot of things though....
If you display confidence and show a passion for life, you will definetely find someone.
If you display confidence and show a passion for life, you will definetely find someone.
09-10-2006, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted by subie OCD
In general ladies want someone confident and passionate. That can mean a lot of things though....
If you display confidence and show a passion for life, you will definetely find someone.
If you display confidence and show a passion for life, you will definetely find someone.
Guys want a challenge from girls, its no different the other way around
09-10-2006, 04:18 PM
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From what girls have told me, a big dong is useless if you suck in the sack
All you need is an avg peter and know how to lay the pipe proper
If you are packing a C battery, well then yeah you're screwed. Better be the best oral of her life
All you need is an avg peter and know how to lay the pipe proper
If you are packing a C battery, well then yeah you're screwed. Better be the best oral of her life
09-10-2006, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted by GilTsuby
Sounds like your being to "lovey dovey" and that's making you guys become more friends then a "boyfriend and girlfriend" relationship. When a man really falls for a girl, it's really easy for us to turn of our testoserone fuels and we become a bit fruity. I can go on forever with detail but to make this short I'll say this; Be man and show her what's up. :banana: Take charge and don't be scared of gettng hurt. It sounds like you really like her and may be scared of gettig your heart broken so your taking babysteps and being cautiouse. Go for the kill and let her know what you want. Take charge but let her know she's in good hands. This might sound very machoish, but I'm trying to get your testoserone fuel back up to par. Do all the above in a gentelmans way ofcourse. Keep us posted.
09-10-2006, 06:15 PM
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Listen to ucbsti, check out the ladder theory and most of all: live it like you want to remember it. For real. Stop for a moment, think about what you want to look back on, and make it happen. Anything less will leave you unsatisfied.
09-10-2006, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by wombatsauce
Listen to ucbsti, check out the ladder theory and most of all: live it like you want to remember it. For real. Stop for a moment, think about what you want to look back on, and make it happen. Anything less will leave you unsatisfied.
I live by the ladder theory.
http://www.laddertheory.com/
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09-10-2006, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted by bassplayrr
To the OP:
Women dont all want the same thing. You may attract/be attracted to a certain type, and if that type doesn't work well, you will need to evaluate why you seek out this non-compatible type. Sometimes this requires (gasp!) a therapist....
Not all women are gold diggers. Hell, my girlfriend makes 3x what I will ever make (and I make a decent amount). She also comes from more money than I do as well. If she's gold digging, she sucks at it
. If the women you attract are gold diggers, then you are seeking them out in some way...
09-10-2006, 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted by GilTsuby
Take charge and don't be scared of gettng hurt. It sounds like you really like her and may be scared of gettig your heart broken so your taking babysteps and being cautiouse. Go for the kill and let her know what you want. Take charge but let her know she's in good hands. This might sound very machoish, but I'm trying to get your testoserone fuel back up to par. Do all the above in a gentelmans way ofcourse. Keep us posted.
Agreed! When it comes to love, go big or go home. Taking half steps wont make your heart hurt less if it ends....just makes it less likely to feel great now.
09-10-2006, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted by mcowger
Women dont all want the same thing. You may attract/be attracted to a certain type, and if that type doesn't work well, you will need to evaluate why you seek out this non-compatible type. Sometimes this requires (gasp!) a therapist....
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Too many guys get WAY to butt hurt when then get rejected. THey need to realize that every girl is different and wants a different kind of guy. Your game/looks/personality are not universal
09-10-2006, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted by ucbsti
True as well :thumbsup:
Too many guys get WAY to butt hurt when then get rejected. THey need to realize that every girl is different and wants a different kind of guy. Your game/looks/personality are not universal
Too many guys get WAY to butt hurt when then get rejected. THey need to realize that every girl is different and wants a different kind of guy. Your game/looks/personality are not universal
I like to think I got decent game, decent looks, pretty darn good personality - but I still need improvement. I'd be bad *** with my looks if I hit the gym
Hahaha, man, damnit, I need to work out.
