I made it, I made it. She has promised me. Yeah.
09-26-2006, 12:32 AM
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PS: If some of you didn't catch my sarcasm, I don't honestly believe women are tools for men... lol.
However, I do believe love is waaaay overrated. Arm yourself mentally.
However, I do believe love is waaaay overrated. Arm yourself mentally.
09-26-2006, 01:24 AM
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Originally Posted by brucelee
PS: If some of you didn't catch my sarcasm, I don't honestly believe women are tools for men... lol.
However, I do believe love is waaaay overrated. Arm yourself mentally.
However, I do believe love is waaaay overrated. Arm yourself mentally.
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09-26-2006, 02:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Porsche06
How to arm myself mentally? Women really that horrible, just like monster?? But women also need men....
In our (USA) society it is implanted into our head that men must be the provider, the dominant one, the protector, etc, etc... When a man shows a sign of weakness, subconciously women percieve this as a turn off, as much as they don't like to admit it, it's true... Compound that with other factors etc, you're setting yourself up for disaster.
My best advice to you is:
1. Don't act so in love. Show her affection, but don't over do it
2. DO NOT spend every waking moment with her... If you want your relationship to get old fast, then by all means, alienate all your friends and follow her every footstep... If you want your relationship to last you need to let her have time to herself, time to miss you, time to develope a sense of pleasure every time she gets to see you.
3. Expect the unexpected. Things happen, things out of your control... Things are NEVER as they seem, things are NEVER perfect, and people do change. Sometimes love blinds you to these things, you have to see past it and think about things with logic, not emotions.
4. Logic is your friend.
5. Emotions are your enemy
6. Buy lots of guns
7. ?
8. Profit.
(Number 6, 7, and 8 were a joke, all others were serious... However, I do recommend buying guns as they are a very fun hobby)
09-26-2006, 03:06 AM
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Originally Posted by brucelee
In our (USA) society it is implanted into our head that men must be the provider, the dominant one, the protector, etc, etc... When a man shows a sign of weakness, subconciously women percieve this as a turn off, as much as they don't like to admit it, it's true... Compound that with other factors etc, you're setting yourself up for disaster.
My best advice to you is:
1. Don't act so in love. Show her affection, but don't over do it
2. DO NOT spend every waking moment with her... If you want your relationship to get old fast, then by all means, alienate all your friends and follow her every footstep... If you want your relationship to last you need to let her have time to herself, time to miss you, time to develope a sense of pleasure every time she gets to see you.
3. Expect the unexpected. Things happen, things out of your control... Things are NEVER as they seem, things are NEVER perfect, and people do change. Sometimes love blinds you to these things, you have to see past it and think about things with logic, not emotions.
4. Logic is your friend.
5. Emotions are your enemy
6. Buy lots of guns
7. ?
8. Profit.
(Number 6, 7, and 8 were a joke, all others were serious... However, I do recommend buying guns as they are a very fun hobby)
My best advice to you is:
1. Don't act so in love. Show her affection, but don't over do it
2. DO NOT spend every waking moment with her... If you want your relationship to get old fast, then by all means, alienate all your friends and follow her every footstep... If you want your relationship to last you need to let her have time to herself, time to miss you, time to develope a sense of pleasure every time she gets to see you.
3. Expect the unexpected. Things happen, things out of your control... Things are NEVER as they seem, things are NEVER perfect, and people do change. Sometimes love blinds you to these things, you have to see past it and think about things with logic, not emotions.
4. Logic is your friend.
5. Emotions are your enemy
6. Buy lots of guns
7. ?
8. Profit.
(Number 6, 7, and 8 were a joke, all others were serious... However, I do recommend buying guns as they are a very fun hobby)
09-26-2006, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted by brucelee
1. Don't act so in love. Show her affection, but don't over do it
2. DO NOT spend every waking moment with her... If you want your relationship to get old fast, then by all means, alienate all your friends and follow her every footstep... If you want your relationship to last you need to let her have time to herself, time to miss you, time to develope a sense of pleasure every time she gets to see you.
3. Expect the unexpected. Things happen, things out of your control... Things are NEVER as they seem, things are NEVER perfect, and people do change. Sometimes love blinds you to these things, you have to see past it and think about things with logic, not emotions.
4. Logic is your friend.
5. Emotions are your enemy
09-26-2006, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by mudman
Sounds like trouble in paradise? Dude, how did you get so jaded?
Dating the wrong people perhaps?
This doesn't just apply to dating however, emotions in general are the enemy... If you use logic and common sense (which are pretty much the same thing) for situations rather than blind emotions, you'll find that life is much more satisfying. (To me at least)
I don't think I'm jaded... But perhaps I am... In this society one has to be jaded...
I don't deny love... I just supress it. Love is a dangerous thing, and if you don't surpress it, you're setting yourself up for suicide.
09-26-2006, 07:26 PM
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Origami posted by Porsche06
Really???? Any comments from female in here?
Really???? Any comments from female in here?
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09-26-2006, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted by brucelee
Dating the wrong people perhaps?
This doesn't just apply to dating however, emotions in general are the enemy... If you use logic and common sense (which are pretty much the same thing) for situations rather than blind emotions, you'll find that life is much more satisfying. (To me at least)
I don't think I'm jaded... But perhaps I am... In this society one has to be jaded...
I don't deny love... I just supress it. Love is a dangerous thing, and if you don't surpress it, you're setting yourself up for suicide.
This doesn't just apply to dating however, emotions in general are the enemy... If you use logic and common sense (which are pretty much the same thing) for situations rather than blind emotions, you'll find that life is much more satisfying. (To me at least)
I don't think I'm jaded... But perhaps I am... In this society one has to be jaded...
I don't deny love... I just supress it. Love is a dangerous thing, and if you don't surpress it, you're setting yourself up for suicide.
09-26-2006, 09:42 PM
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Originally Posted by rau
haha, sounds like me......
09-26-2006, 10:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Porsche06
Hey dude, what happened? You seems so negative. Hope you're ok. Love should not be that bad....
Ha ha... Nothing happened in particular, it's just the way I see things from personal experience as well as experience from watching my friends get totally screwed over constantly, etc.
I'm moving this thread to OT because it has no relevance to OT and I don't think I should have posted half the stuff I have in this thread. I warned you, you don't listen. don't come crying to me when you GF turns out to be a transexual.
09-27-2006, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted by brucelee
In our (USA) society it is implanted into our head that men must be the provider, the dominant one, the protector, etc, etc... When a man shows a sign of weakness, subconciously women percieve this as a turn off, as much as they don't like to admit it, it's true... Compound that with other factors etc, you're setting yourself up for disaster.
My best advice to you is:
1. Don't act so in love. Show her affection, but don't over do it
2. DO NOT spend every waking moment with her... If you want your relationship to get old fast, then by all means, alienate all your friends and follow her every footstep... If you want your relationship to last you need to let her have time to herself, time to miss you, time to develope a sense of pleasure every time she gets to see you.
3. Expect the unexpected. Things happen, things out of your control... Things are NEVER as they seem, things are NEVER perfect, and people do change. Sometimes love blinds you to these things, you have to see past it and think about things with logic, not emotions.
4. Logic is your friend.
5. Emotions are your enemy
6. Buy lots of guns
7. ?
8. Profit.
(Number 6, 7, and 8 were a joke, all others were serious... However, I do recommend buying guns as they are a very fun hobby)
My best advice to you is:
1. Don't act so in love. Show her affection, but don't over do it
2. DO NOT spend every waking moment with her... If you want your relationship to get old fast, then by all means, alienate all your friends and follow her every footstep... If you want your relationship to last you need to let her have time to herself, time to miss you, time to develope a sense of pleasure every time she gets to see you.
3. Expect the unexpected. Things happen, things out of your control... Things are NEVER as they seem, things are NEVER perfect, and people do change. Sometimes love blinds you to these things, you have to see past it and think about things with logic, not emotions.
4. Logic is your friend.
5. Emotions are your enemy
6. Buy lots of guns
7. ?
8. Profit.
(Number 6, 7, and 8 were a joke, all others were serious... However, I do recommend buying guns as they are a very fun hobby)
could not have put it better myself.
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