well i recently got a number from a girl and i find out that she somewhat has a boyfriend. the first time we talked on the phone we talked for a little over 3 hrs. andwe talked about her relationship. she doesnt consider him a boyfriend but he considers her a girlfriend. she told me she lost her trust in him and that he constantly lies to her. my question is, why did she give me her number? is iy because shes looking for new "fish" or shes looking for a friend to talk to? thanks all!

ed


formerly blue-ej20

can we make a forum dedicated to relationship advice :p




seriously i think it's a good idea....

-Sean

i second that!

Look she likes you. No way some chick you JUST MET is gunna make you a "friend to talk to."

what about her significant other? maybe i should give it some time and go with the flow. i jsut wanna know what kinda games girls are likely to play.

ed

Originally posted by hokusai
what about her significant other? maybe i should give it some time and go with the flow. i jsut wanna know what kinda games girls are likely to play.

ed

What aboot him? Jesus man who cares aboot a boyfriend...OBVIOUSLY not her if shes talking on the phone with you for 3 FRIKKIN HOURS!

Put it this way if my girlfriend was talking on the phone with some dude she just met for 3 hours I'd be worried.

i dont want to be a home wrecker though. that would suck if i was her boyfriend abd she gave her number to a random guy. but then again i treat my women with respect. oh well.i guess its a win win situation for me.

ed

Actually it would suck if you were this "boyfriend" of hers cause she really doesnt consider him her boyfriend! Thats the fact you gotta remember. Home wrecking is a fact of life...like tutti.

very true! its like the cycle of life. hahaha

i mean whos this guy to you? no one....so dont think aboot his feelings. If I went around and cared what people thought...well...then i guess I wouldn't hate everyone like i do!

hahaha, its my morals that would bother me. damn my caring nature!

Women......... Whatever you do, just remember, when this chick had a "boyfriend" or whatever she wants to call it, she gave her number to you. So if you do continue with this, just remember, she did it once and may do it again, that is having a "relationship" with you but still handing out phone numbers. The answer to all decent looking women questions is "Stuff it in her guts"

/\rcanum

if shes in a relationship and likes her so called bf, then u would not be on the phone with her for 3 hrs.

if i was you i would ask her out

there is obviously some kind of connection with you and this girl

hmmm..ok next question...
theres this classmate of mine. i met her not to long ago too but. when i first told her about the situation she told me not to call her because of the bf situation. she made me feel guilty saying that i should be put in the shoes of that girls current bf. s my classmate looking out for me? i was kinda scared because i was thinking that there was a small possibility that she may like me too! but i can be paranoid. please discuss... thanks again.

Give it a rest there casanova.

Heres my advice after reading your first post only.

Listen to her when she compains... Write it down, you will need this later.

Find out everything she hates about him, and wishes he would do... And quite simply... Do it. You'll be in her pants in no time if you got anything goin for you at all.

You need to make her think your all the things he isnt (Which your not either, but thats ok for now)

After that... your on your own.

If you want a meaningful relationship? Go to church and find a girl there.

:)

~v6

im not lying about the situation either. the time im looking for a relationship, i dont find one...the time i quit looking they come in packs! man! im not ready for a relationship yet. at least i dont think. i still need to recover from my previous one.

Then take my advice, and hammer down!

~v6

got it!

Stuff it in both their guts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



/\rcanum

yea its 2 for 1!!! u aint never gonna get that chance again

Wait just one minute............................................ .....


Where the heck are the pics?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!


Step 1. Take pics of girls
Step 2. Turn on computer
Step 3. Log on here
Step 4. Log onto Forums
Step 5. Log onto Off Topic
Step 6. Select "need girl advice (kinda long)"
Step 7. Select reply
Step 8. Click Browse in the attach file menu
Step 9. Find pics of girls on hard drive
Step 10. Select pics
Step 11. Submit thread
Step 12. Watch someone photochop pics of girls and kill kittens.

/\rcanum

i dont wanna post pics because:

1. this is a small world and im sure someone here knows who they are. i dont want them to find out that im talking about them on a car forum!
2. i dont have any. :P