So ive been looking everywere for the ecu wiring diagram for my car and my gf's couldnt find anything but i have found a sorce so i will share with all of you. it has all the most wiring but if i find another with all the misc. i will update the post

http://www.hksusa.com/content/pdf3375.pdf

heres another

http://www.msu.edu/~briggsj7/ecu.html

MSU link seems to be broken